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Posted on 5/14/21 at 7:40 pm to
Posted by Ancient Astronaut
Member since May 2015
37275 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 7:40 pm to
There are good Christian women out there. Just keep praying.
This post was edited on 6/2/21 at 8:13 am
Posted by DLauw
SWLA
Member since Sep 2011
6194 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 8:21 pm to
Almost 50 here and the divorce isn’t finalized. It’s been over a year. I just recently started looking.

Now, I’m sort of seeing this lady who’s the same age as me. We have a lot (like, a whole lot) of the same interest and we get along great. My only hang up is the fact that she’s a breast cancer survivor and has had a double mastectomy. I can’t help but feel like I’m a piece of shite for thinking about/being hung up on this.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
25299 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 8:31 pm to
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I have no interest in dating a professional.

Much rather date a professional than someone working retail or a waitress. Like it when a person has some drive, grit, and determination. Conversation is usually better too.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
25299 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 8:36 pm to
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last month, I asked her straight up for a FWB relationship. She never replied back.

Did you ask this via text?
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
32534 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 8:38 pm to
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As a recent divorced baw with grown kids I have no real intention of ever dating again. I’ve discovered rather mid- late in life that I really don’t like the company of women very much . I’m pretty psyched about my career, drinking whiskey with my friends, going to ballgames, traveling the world and hanging out with my dog though.


And jerking off apparently. Or hitting up some dudes

To each his own
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
40111 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 8:45 pm to
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last month, I asked her straight up for a FWB relationship. She never replied back.


First, this is a conversation that should have taken place in person, not by text. A person can't always judge correctly another person's context or tone in a text.

Second, what were you thinking? Again, you screwed up by texting. But you probably made her feel like she was a piece of meat only there to serve you. And you just devalued anything you had going for you, even in your friend zone relationship.

A friendship is a basis for a deeper and more involved relationship. You could have been really close, but I bet you are about as far away as you can be right now.



This post was edited on 5/15/21 at 3:42 am
Posted by h0bnail
Member since Sep 2009
7628 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 9:06 pm to
Time for a Will Cover guide to obtaining pre-owned pussy.
Posted by TchoupitoulasTiger
NOLA
Member since May 2011
1308 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 11:18 pm to
Well there's plenty of hairdressers and women who "do make up" in the dating pool. I'm in my mid-30's single/no kids and wish you the best of luck with those women. The AVEDA Institute produces some real gems.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 11:53 pm to
I also want a Hispanic gf
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38450 posts
Posted on 5/14/21 at 11:56 pm to
Geography plays into this. I do not have trouble getting a date but it is tough to find a professional in small town Louisiana. I'll take a trip to a metro area and line up 3 dates the first day with women who, as far as I can tell, are more than a walking, talking bill
Posted by cable
Member since Oct 2018
9735 posts
Posted on 5/15/21 at 1:40 am to
You sound retarded -good luck
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
43337 posts
Posted on 5/15/21 at 5:18 am to
Guess I should consider myself lucky. I started dating my current wife 20 years ago this April, I was still 19. Six weeks from turning 20. She was 3 weeks from turning 21.We'll be married 17 years in October, have a soon-to-be 6 yr.old angel and are rock solid. I turn 40 3 weeks from yesterday. She just turned 41 on the 6th.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
28864 posts
Posted on 5/15/21 at 7:37 am to
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I also want a Hispanic gf


Go to Mexico, there's thousands that will bang you, clean and cook just for a shot at US Citizenship.

4-5 years later you will have her entire family living with you but who cares
Posted by mthorn2
Planet Louisiana
Member since Sep 2007
1563 posts
Posted on 5/17/21 at 7:47 am to
Guys I don't know what to say about all the professional women hate but this is what not dating a business woman just because she has a career sounds like.

1) I want to marry someone whos lazy and going to spend all my money, and when we get divorced she's taking half
or
2) I have zero desire to make solid wealth in my lifetime. Two large incomes sounds terrible because I won't be able to boss my wife.
or
3) I have an IQ below 83 and intimidated by an intelligent conversation with someone I have spend my life with.
This post was edited on 5/17/21 at 7:48 am
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120105 posts
Posted on 5/17/21 at 8:13 am to

This post was edited on 5/17/21 at 8:14 am
Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
9934 posts
Posted on 5/17/21 at 8:18 am to
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4-5 years later you will have her entire family living with you but who cares


Sounds like free lawn care and drywall repairs to me!
Posted by southpawcock
Member since Oct 2015
17586 posts
Posted on 5/17/21 at 8:27 am to
This is pretty much what I have right now and I love it. No dating commitment bullshite.. but just not having sex as much as I'd like to, but.. whatever. I can jerk it four times in an hour or two. Problem is she's 51 and I'm 33. So yeah my drive is a lot higher. When we hookup though it's fricking awesome.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
38710 posts
Posted on 5/17/21 at 9:28 am to
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Had success finding educated women such as professors and physicians meaning they were single into their 30s

You may have cracked the code.
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
25588 posts
Posted on 5/17/21 at 9:30 am to
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Marriage material is nowhere.



So, I got the last one?
Posted by Notnac
Vidalia
Member since Nov 2020
881 posts
Posted on 5/17/21 at 11:06 am to
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As a recent divorced baw with grown kids I have no real intention of ever dating again. I’ve discovered rather mid- late in life that I really don’t like the company of women very much . I’m pretty psyched about my career, drinking whiskey with my friends, going to ballgames, traveling the world and hanging out with my dog though.


This guy gets it.

I’m m recently separated and I feel exactly the same. Need to find an FWB or two and I’ll be set.
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