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Posted on 1/25/25 at 2:20 am to Ping Pong
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mail order bride companies

Posted on 1/25/25 at 2:47 am to lsu xman
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If you're thinking about marrying Asian, she'll try to get her whole family here. Either that or send money to help them
Common misconception .
Maybe that’s how it was 30 or 40 yrs ago, i cant speak to that… these days, Asian women are more than happy to have a “rich” Westerner (ie middle or even lower class to us) foot the bill for them , in their own country…. I dont know too many Asian families who want to up stakes and move to America …. But yes, esp in the Philippines, if you are marrying/living with a beautiful woman half your age, there will be familial support expected.. but, that means something very different than you might think.. the foreign guys i know who are in their 50s or 60s and have a gorgeous wife or gf who is in her 20s and 30s, yes they send money to her family in the province- but never more than about $150 US dollars per month.. it’s a small fraction of what you would spend to maintain a relationship with an overweight, entitled American ‘queen’- yet that is literally enough money for a Filipino family to survive in the province, and your GF will show her thanks to you in many, many ways ……
Posted on 1/25/25 at 3:07 am to Ping Pong
Go to a nice restaurant in Prague.
They ask if you are married or alone, and if single your order will be delivered by an "in-between girl" (not the waitress), who, if she is interested, will ask if she can sit down and join you, eat off your plate, and so on, the point being she is working on her Mrs.
Mom usually comes with the deal, and the entire "buy out" (to adopt a coaching term) should be around 10k.
I declined, but damn that girl was fine.
They ask if you are married or alone, and if single your order will be delivered by an "in-between girl" (not the waitress), who, if she is interested, will ask if she can sit down and join you, eat off your plate, and so on, the point being she is working on her Mrs.
Mom usually comes with the deal, and the entire "buy out" (to adopt a coaching term) should be around 10k.
I declined, but damn that girl was fine.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 7:15 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Dorks find women all the time
Very common in the oilfield for engineers to marry Brazilians or Asians if they travelled in their career. Usually second wives. I have seen and met some dorks with relatively attractive wives. Also from the wife perspective, it is kind of a social status thing to have a wealthy (to them) American husband.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 7:20 am to Ping Pong
Get off of dating apps for one. The last 3 women I dated, including my wife, I met in a grocery store. An older guy I worked with told me it's the best place to pick up women. Pay attention to what's in their carts and it will let you know if she knows how to cook and if she has kids. I married a Puerto Rican woman, so she is technically foreign, but also a US citizen. I still feel like I hit the jackpot 8 years later.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 7:40 am to Ping Pong
16 years with a Brit. Some days I’d love to deport her but she’s a pretty great woman to put up with me.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 7:43 am to Camp Randall
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I married a Russian girl that was working in gulf shores. She’s sadly Americanized now. I can’t say I’d recommend it but if you want to meet one, a vacation area is a good bet.
Was she working in Subway?
Subway is Gulf Shores and Orange Beach is always loaded with Russian and Ukrainian women in their 20s.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 7:50 am to Ping Pong
Yes, but she was here in the USA for 15 years prior to us meeting so she did become somewhat Americanized but she still has great values and not as much baggage as most American women.
I will say that she is a horrible homemaker because she grew up wealthy with maids and cooks and admitted to me before we got married that she is not great at those things. She can cook just fine but she can't clean a house for shite and is not a morning person at all because she's never really had to get up early for anything.
ETA: My wife tells everyone she is CIA
Chinese but born and raised in Indonesia and now an American
I will say that she is a horrible homemaker because she grew up wealthy with maids and cooks and admitted to me before we got married that she is not great at those things. She can cook just fine but she can't clean a house for shite and is not a morning person at all because she's never really had to get up early for anything.
ETA: My wife tells everyone she is CIA
Chinese but born and raised in Indonesia and now an American
This post was edited on 1/25/25 at 8:04 am
Posted on 1/25/25 at 7:54 am to Ping Pong
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Meanwhile, women from Latin America, Asia, and Eastern Europe appear to be more practical wife material.
You chauvinistic male pig!!!
I kid lol.... I'm with you brother
Posted on 1/25/25 at 7:56 am to billjamin
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You could probably scoop one up from a deportation line.
Everybody stop. You are not going to beat this answer.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:02 am to lsu xman
My American wife is rubbing my back talking with an Asian accent because I told her how awesome this thread was.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:04 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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So you can’t find one in the other 40%? Maybe look in the mirror and get your shite together
This could be sound advice. You gave a list of three basic things you’d like to see in a woman; remember that they probably have a list, too. Make sure you are…
- at least a 6/10 in appearance. That means in good physical shape.
- a reliable provider. You don’t have to be rich, but they don’t want to live in a trailer or a seedy neighborhood.
- a kind man who is, at the very least, not going to be violent.
If you meet these criteria there is one more thing, and I’m not telling you from experience, because I was long married when I realized this.
Ask, ask, ask. The average looking guys who succeed at this game are the ones who have the balls to ask. Unless you are buying a mail-order woman this is the essential thing.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:05 am to Ping Pong
yep a coonass
This post was edited on 1/25/25 at 8:06 am
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:07 am to Hangit
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We had to jump through 87 hoops and pay the US government a truckload of money to get the OK to get married.
No you did not
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:09 am to Ping Pong
Go to Florida. Lots of hot eastern European women working in the T-shirt / beachwear shops.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:13 am to Seeker
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Sweden
Frying pan into the fryer. Maybe you are just going off the myth that Swedish women are great looking. They are not. The occasional hotty is fantastic, but it is a nation of lantern-jawed 50 yarders. Go there. You will be disappointed, in spite of the fact that there isn’t a lot of obesity.
Eastern Europeans have a much higher hit rate on good looking women.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:17 am to Penrod
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Sweden Frying pan into the fryer. Maybe you are just going off the myth that Swedish women are great looking. They are not. The occasional hotty is fantastic, but it is a nation of lantern-jawed 50 yarders. Go there. You will be disappointed, in spite of the fact that there isn’t a lot of obesity. Eastern Europeans have a much higher hit rate on good looking women.
Yes. And they are married to the state. They don’t need men and many treat them as such.
Posted on 1/25/25 at 8:22 am to Oneforthemoney
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It's like this. American women for the most part make it all about them. It's me me me me.
You give some very good advice in your post, but my heart sinks when I see this. No, American women are not like that. Some are. On the other hand, American men need to look in the mirror. Some of them are spoiled rotten.
The problem isn’t American women, or American men, it’s Americans; or better yet, it’s people. Foreigners can be problematic, too, as you discuss in your post.
The idea that you can get a foreign girl and everything will be better is really based on the idea that the foreign girl will be so happy at her improved style of living that she will be complaisant and subservient. This is uncomfortably close to prostitution-marriage.
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