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Posted on 1/19/24 at 4:35 pm to Proximo
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I think he meant because she was trolling those groups in the first place. It sends a bad message
Oh, that makes sense to some degree.
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I feel the “safety” concern is a bunch of BS to cover for the real reason those groups exist, which is gossip and drama. It’s too easy for them to go on there and trash people when maybe the guy just wasn’t interested.
I also don’t condone public airing of grievances- so the premise of this type of fb group is just ick to me.
I honestly think ppl have forgotten how to have clear and direct communication.
If ppl were just fkn honest and direct (and that can happen without being rude abt it) those fb groups wouldn’t be necessary.
But alas, there’s just an increasing number of shady mfers- both male and female.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 4:36 pm to chrome_daddy
Women are addicted to the attention of social media.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 4:38 pm to mikelbr
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Heyyy. I'm a 5.8!
pfftttt… only if the scale stopped at 5
Posted on 1/19/24 at 4:49 pm to Proximo
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I feel the “safety” concern is a bunch of BS to cover for the real reason those groups exist, which is gossip and drama. It’s too easy for them to go on there and trash people when maybe the guy just wasn’t interested.
Newsflash… girls have always gossiped and talked shite like this behind closed doors.
The problem is that this used to work FOR you, not against you, assuming you were sexually attractive to begin with. The girls would all let the spurned girl vent knowing full well it was just sour grapes and then would be intrigued with you and try to date you themselves.
I’m as leery of modern dating as it comes… I’m on these threads like a fly to shite
and even I’m kind of skeptical that these groups actually matter. If you were attractive enough to bang on the first date then you’re probably attractive enough for the other girls too. Where they probably hurt you more is if you just outright faceplant and flub the date. You used to be able to just hold the L for a night in quiet embarrassment and then bounce back and keep going. Women used to have more grace about that. But that’s more of a young people issue in general though. People under 30 are fricking psycho these daysPosted on 1/19/24 at 4:51 pm to chrome_daddy
They are doing your buddy a favor. Any chick that is on a site like that is a trash whore anyway.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 4:52 pm to tigernurse
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And I asked a valid question.
Why would he get upset with the messenger and then “one and done” her outta spite
I don't approve of women participating in these groups in this first place. And I didn't one and done her out of spite. We went on a date and I just didn't like her all that much but still wanted to get laid. It's not any more complicated than that. But I did tell her I didn't want to see her anymore the next day.
Women like to say these groups are for their safety so they don't end up with a creepy psycho or something. Which is a massive crock of shite. They're gossip groups and everyone knows it.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 4:58 pm to PrecedentedTimes
quote:”Dude, my wife wouldn’t suck my dick 2 days after she gave birth to our child and after I gained 40 pounds! Don’t get married!”
Whenever I hear some married dude complaining about easily solvable quibbles I just can’t take them seriously.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:08 pm to Scuttle But
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We went on a date and I just didn't like her all that much but still wanted to get laid
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But I did tell her I didn't want to see her anymore the next day.
This is what I mean- this bs is a large part of why dating sucks for ppl these days- if you’d been honest abt your intentions- just to get laid -she probably wouldn’t have slept with you (or she may have- but it would be her choice knowing you just wanted to fk).
But you opted for the self serving route- to knowingly screw her as a one and done.
then the next day you tell her you don’t want to see her anymore and yet complain that ppl talk shite abt you?
Ok.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:13 pm to tigernurse
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But you opted for the self serving route- to knowingly screw her as a one and done.
then the next day you tell her you don’t want to see her anymore and yet complain that ppl talk shite abt you?
Yes. All she's doing is depriving other women the opportunity of finding out I'm an a-hole in person.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:16 pm to Aspercel
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I believe the latter far outweighs the former.
If you don’t think that 80% of the posts on that site aren’t just women that are pissed at being turned down, you are lying to yourself.
Heck, now a days what is even appropriate? What, is ghosting okay in one direction but a formal in person goodbye after a single date the baseline in the other? Otherwise you just “strung them along” or “wasn’t serious about a relationship?”
I guarantee the posters work themselves in a huff, twist the perceptions they had, add a few small embellishments for flavor perhaps, and then convince themselves that they were led on and taken advantage of.
A smaller section of that group will continue and go even further and take the feelings above as fair justification to completely make stuff up.
This post was edited on 1/19/24 at 5:20 pm
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:17 pm to chrome_daddy
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I live in Virginia and my single buddy (40 yo) found out from a female friend that he's listed on this Facebook site for local women ("Are we dating the same guy?") t
That’s non of your business
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Why am I interested? I have two young men in my household I'm responsible for and I do not envy them in this environment. I'm lucky in that I'm happily married but I worry about my boys. At least they know what a loving relationship looks like.
Why do you have young men living in your house?
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:20 pm to CoachChappy
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Honestly, don't be worried. Any of the women perusing that site aren't worth the time.
Women snoop. Women know this. They will run background checks on your arse.
This isn’t a new concept.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:23 pm to dgnx6
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Women snoop. Women know this. They will run background checks on your arse.
This isn’t a new concept.
I had one woman say that it was weird that I had such a small social media footprint. She asked, "How do I know you aren't married or in a serious relationship?"
fricking delusional
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:23 pm to Scuttle But
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:28 pm to Scuttle But
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Yes. All she's doing is depriving other women the opportunity of finding out I'm an a-hole in person.
I feel ya
I don’t just play an a-hole on the internet
I’m really an a-hole IRL
But I’m a gentle a-hole, ask anyone that has met me or knows me
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:43 pm to tigernurse
Like no woman has ever done the same thing
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:47 pm to FightinTigersDammit
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Like no woman has ever done the same thing
If you’d have read my entire posts you’d see where I said women do it as well and imho if you’re just dtf - then lead with that. Don’t bullshite and string ppl along.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 5:49 pm to chrome_daddy
My gf’s best friend is a psycho and posts practically every guy she goes out with on this fb page. One guy found out and kindly asked her to take his info down. She refused so he’s getting her for defamation of character. She started blowing him up about it and now he has a restraining order on her. Yet, she’s still posting dudes on here. And she wonders why she’s single.
This post was edited on 1/19/24 at 5:50 pm
Posted on 1/19/24 at 6:05 pm to chrome_daddy
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I can damn sure see why some men are like, to hell with this. I'll be the best person I can for me, nobody else. And if some woman comes along and can fit into my life, great. But I'm not going out of my way looking. My buddy is almost there
This is how every single man should behave
This post was edited on 1/19/24 at 6:06 pm
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