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Posted on 12/23/21 at 12:15 pm to MoisterOyster
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Breaks my heart that momma don’t approve but what do you do?
Seriously?
Throw that bitch from the train.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 12:19 pm to TygerTyger
There's a difference from listing to concerns and direction and entertaining when someone is being petty and controlling.
In this case OP mom is being petty and controlling. Saying I don't like your gf and behaving crappy is some high school shite.
Example....I talk to my mom about my career let her in, update her etc, but sometimes she interjects herself just to be in control like she used to be when I was a kid and I shut that shite down quick. I think a lot of parents have trouble giving up the dynamic of control they had over a kid for 18 years...and it needs to be shut down imo
In this case OP mom is being petty and controlling. Saying I don't like your gf and behaving crappy is some high school shite.
Example....I talk to my mom about my career let her in, update her etc, but sometimes she interjects herself just to be in control like she used to be when I was a kid and I shut that shite down quick. I think a lot of parents have trouble giving up the dynamic of control they had over a kid for 18 years...and it needs to be shut down imo
This post was edited on 12/23/21 at 12:41 pm
Posted on 12/23/21 at 12:19 pm to MoisterOyster
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what do you do?
just leave her at the truck stop and pick her up for the ride home after
Posted on 12/23/21 at 12:30 pm to MoisterOyster
Just tell them the truth.
He isn’t just your best friend/roommate, but that y’all are lovers and that you love being the catcher in the relationship.
He isn’t just your best friend/roommate, but that y’all are lovers and that you love being the catcher in the relationship.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 12:33 pm to MoisterOyster
Listen to their concerns but if it isn’t anything valid, then you need to let them know she’s with you and that’s not changing anytime soon.
If you don’t stand up for her now, they’ll think they can dictate who you’re with from here on out. And that’s not healthy.
If you don’t stand up for her now, they’ll think they can dictate who you’re with from here on out. And that’s not healthy.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 12:35 pm to MoisterOyster
Tell them that women with penises are acceptable nowadays, and that they should be more openminded.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 2:57 pm to MoisterOyster
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I’m bout to ask her what her problem is with my SO cause I can’t really figure it out. But her opinion makes me question whether or not I really wanna keep dating the chick.
Her problem with your SO is just that-HER problem. Don’t let her make it yours with some passive aggressive manipulation. Your girlfriends shouldn’t have to audition for Mama; it’s not fair to anyone.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 3:16 pm to MoisterOyster
Be a man and talk to your mom in private. Tell her you love your SO and if mom loves you she will keep her personal feelings to herself and give the girl a chance. Tell her If she can’t find a way to like her, at least be polite to her for you
Posted on 12/23/21 at 3:16 pm to Team Vote
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I’ve just read horror stories from women who stuck around with men who refused to stand up to their mothers with this weird Jocasta complex.
The subreddit /r/JustNoMIL is insanity. Some of these people’s stories will blow your mind.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 4:00 pm to MoisterOyster
What was the reason? Tell us and let us choose a side.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 4:18 pm to Fat and Happy
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Trying to please family and the expectation that your SO has to win them over is complete BS. They need to look at themselves then because they barely know her and have made their mind up based off a quick meeting. That’s pretty weak for actual family to do
Generally I agree, but maybe she got drunk and acted an arse. He really didn’t give any details.
Posted on 12/23/21 at 4:19 pm to LouisianaLady
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This post was edited on 4/18/22 at 12:41 pm
Posted on 12/23/21 at 7:20 pm to MoisterOyster
Your mother doesn't want to let her baby boy marry any girl. She wants you all to herself. Your mother won't approve of any girl you bring home.
Live your own life. Grow a pair.
Live your own life. Grow a pair.
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