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re: How do you handle a big breakup
Posted on 12/26/17 at 3:50 pm to Brazos
Posted on 12/26/17 at 3:50 pm to Brazos
quote:
Let me guess, she became incensed over the election and started adopting that ideology?
To be fair, We had other issues. The feminism just enhanced them.
It wasn't the election that caused it. She was turning that way before POTUS Trump came in.
It was personal life issues that triggered it. The political climate right now basically added fuel to it.
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Posted on 12/26/17 at 3:54 pm to volod
Changes in scenery often help. New zip code. New friend. Restaurants and watering holes. New job at Raytheon...
Oops.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 3:56 pm to volod
quote:
I'm not scrawny?
Game matters ALOT. You should know that mike.
I would never get pussy if not for game. But....
Posted on 12/26/17 at 3:56 pm to volod
Sorry he broke your heart
Did he write you a letter? If so, please post it here
Did he write you a letter? If so, please post it here
This post was edited on 12/26/17 at 3:57 pm
Posted on 12/26/17 at 3:58 pm to volod
I went through it not to long ago. The main thing I did was focus on myself. I hung out with my friends and played a lot of golf to keep my mind off of it. Time heals all baw. You will look up in a couple of months and will be fine. Your body can only give a shite for so long. Just focus on bettering yourself and everything will work itself out 
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:01 pm to volod
It's easier for the woman to move on to other partners. But only time and the out of sight out of mind will get you to not think about her.
I've been on more dates since August than I had in the previous 10 years of my life. Had a gf for 5 of those. Yeah sometimes you feel like a stud, others it's just exhausting.
I've been on more dates since August than I had in the previous 10 years of my life. Had a gf for 5 of those. Yeah sometimes you feel like a stud, others it's just exhausting.
This post was edited on 12/26/17 at 4:03 pm
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:01 pm to volod
The majority of responses will be to hook up with other people as soon as possible and as often as possible. Those people have low self esteem and that is their means of coping unfortunately.
Take some time and focus on yourself and the things that make you happy.
Take some time and focus on yourself and the things that make you happy.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:02 pm to Pectus
quote:
So just allow it to happen.
This.
Look the hurt & loneliness directly in the eyes and just accept it as it inevitably rains down on you. Don't try to distract yourself; that will only delay the inevitable and make it worse. "The only way past it is through it." Follow the natural arc of pain & recovery. The healing process is slow, so just accept that reality going into it.
And, of course, PIIHB.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:35 pm to volod
quote:Dude, get a hold of yourself.
It has been a really tough time for me. I know its part of life, but it still hurts.
If that doesn't work, find a new girlfriend.....
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:45 pm to volod
A big part of breaking up is the fact that that person has been part of your life for so long. Anytime you change something that fricks up a routine you been on for years it takes some time, but the best way to take care of that is to get on a new routine. Fine some new people to be around, be friends with... And eventually you will not give a frick about your ex.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:48 pm to volod
Bud Wei Ser
It's a cure all
It's a cure all
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:54 pm to volod
Don't do like the rest of your brethren and lock down an ugly, fat white girl.
It is time to outkick your coverage on your next real relationship.
It is time to outkick your coverage on your next real relationship.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 4:59 pm to volod
Do you have as friends a couple who know you well? And who like you?
Does the woman in the couple know other women equally well?
The one serious match making I did ended in marriage (and they are still married 25+ years later) worked because both my husband and I knew the guy from grad school, work and social (I was the maid of honor in his first wedding) and we could describe what kind of woman he needed to a woman friend of mine, who thought through her friends, and came up with someone he should date. He did. They did. and a year later, permanent.
And a hint, don't comment on the feminist bull, any potential fix up date has probably heard it from her friends or almost-friends, and doesn't want anything to do with them either.
Does the woman in the couple know other women equally well?
The one serious match making I did ended in marriage (and they are still married 25+ years later) worked because both my husband and I knew the guy from grad school, work and social (I was the maid of honor in his first wedding) and we could describe what kind of woman he needed to a woman friend of mine, who thought through her friends, and came up with someone he should date. He did. They did. and a year later, permanent.
And a hint, don't comment on the feminist bull, any potential fix up date has probably heard it from her friends or almost-friends, and doesn't want anything to do with them either.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 5:03 pm to TH03
quote:Pretty sure you stole that quote from Ghandi.
Start banging anything and everything.
So simple, yet so profound.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 5:07 pm to volod
Been over a decade since my ex dumped me and I still think about her daily :(
Posted on 12/26/17 at 5:08 pm to Walt OReilly
quote:
Been over a decade since my ex dumped me and I still think about her daily :(
I do too. Then I text her to come over and drain nuts.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 5:27 pm to Bama and Beer
Posted on 12/26/17 at 5:28 pm to volod
It's supposed to hurt because you cared. Nothing wrong with that.Take your time and enjoy some introspection for awhile. Change up your routines.
Time really does heal all wounds.
Time really does heal all wounds.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 5:29 pm to volod
Candy arse.
Posted on 12/26/17 at 5:33 pm to volod
Not sure what your situation is but me after 6 years would do the following
if I have my own place I would reorganize and clean the whole house/apartment. Nothing overly drastic just a legit spring cleaning/field day type clean. I want my bed perfect and smelling like downy or tide or whatever.
Put away anything and everything of hers, mail it back and get it out of your daily sight.
Next I would take leave or vacation days and go away somewhere, anywhere, whatever you like. It is winter so me...I would want to go boarding in Colorado or something and go look at snow bunnies and drink bourbon.
The change in scenery and break from my normal routine would allow me to reflect properly on the relationship in a healthy manner and get perspective without it having any immediate impact on my work or personal life.
The time away should be therapeutic for you and should help you recharge your batteries for when you do go back to your every day life. The clean house is representative of a fresh start and clear head, the time away is for perspective and vision going forward for what you want and your plan for how your going to get it.
If you want to manwhore it up as suggested there is no better place to do it than on vacation with no strings attached
If you want to take time to find something serious...you at least put yourself in a better state of mind to pursue that and might have a clearer vision of what you are looking for and how to get it
if I have my own place I would reorganize and clean the whole house/apartment. Nothing overly drastic just a legit spring cleaning/field day type clean. I want my bed perfect and smelling like downy or tide or whatever.
Put away anything and everything of hers, mail it back and get it out of your daily sight.
Next I would take leave or vacation days and go away somewhere, anywhere, whatever you like. It is winter so me...I would want to go boarding in Colorado or something and go look at snow bunnies and drink bourbon.
The change in scenery and break from my normal routine would allow me to reflect properly on the relationship in a healthy manner and get perspective without it having any immediate impact on my work or personal life.
The time away should be therapeutic for you and should help you recharge your batteries for when you do go back to your every day life. The clean house is representative of a fresh start and clear head, the time away is for perspective and vision going forward for what you want and your plan for how your going to get it.
If you want to manwhore it up as suggested there is no better place to do it than on vacation with no strings attached
If you want to take time to find something serious...you at least put yourself in a better state of mind to pursue that and might have a clearer vision of what you are looking for and how to get it
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