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Posted on 1/7/26 at 7:15 pm to
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
71630 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 7:15 pm to
Both parents working and more than 50% of one check going to childcare.

Its a plague
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
8387 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 7:54 pm to
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Being a parent is expensive


So is keeping up with the Jones’. Your choice.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98841 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 7:56 pm to
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Being a parent is expensive


I’m sure this has been said but it only gets worse
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
121201 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 7:57 pm to
How many kids do these places have? Thats $20k from one kid... Get 10 kids thats grossing $200k.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
14451 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 8:06 pm to
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$400 a week in the Atlanta suburbs too. It’s hurts.
Get a Colombian live in nanny. They'll stab a MFer over your kids for that.
Posted by FnTigers
Member since Sep 2021
2809 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 8:08 pm to
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I’ll say the obvious part out loud. Women should stay home and raise children.
100% this.

Feminism screwed our country up so bad. Women belong in the household caring for the kids. Full stop!

Fight me!
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
14451 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 8:23 pm to
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Women belong in the household

But how will you afford the AT4 she so desperately needs? Men try to outrun what women spend, and in many cases, enable it. Doesn't matter if she's at home or not, a Ford Escape for your two kids simply won't do.
Posted by Tifway419
Member since Sep 2022
1997 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 8:23 pm to
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I'm paying $1800 a month for one.
Where do you live? If it’s BR, then you’re getting screwed and that’s on you. There’s plenty of daycares that are just fine for nearly half that price.
Posted by FnTigers
Member since Sep 2021
2809 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 8:26 pm to
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But how will you afford the AT4 she so desperately needs?
We buy our vehicles used and pay cash. We live within our means, never go without, and enjoy life. Life is best when the Wife is at home caring for the kids and the household.
Posted by Burt Reynolds
Monterey, CA
Member since Jul 2008
24302 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 8:26 pm to
Dont live Austin then.

Place kinda sucks anyway.
Posted by Howyouluhdat
On Fleek St
Member since Jan 2015
9019 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 8:34 pm to
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Said differently: Leave your $250k/yr job and move somewhere that you can make $80k just so you can pay $100/week for daycare.



If he was making that much he wouldn’t be worried about the cost especially if his wife also works
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
14451 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:02 pm to
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We buy our vehicles used and pay cas

That's not the OT. Driving back from chemical plants in Geismar and seeing Z71s, Jetskis, and 4 wheelers worth more than the doublewide the owners lived in was instructive.
Posted by TheDeathValley
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2010
20460 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:05 pm to
We were lucky enough that all three of our kids are spread out enough we never had more than one in daycare, one in pre-k, and one in elementary school.

I think it was in the ball park of $1000 a month.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
59992 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:06 pm to
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AT4
damn I’m missing out

My Tahoe only has 4wd
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
14451 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:17 pm to
Chevy... Where is the aghast emoji?
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
59992 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:20 pm to
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aghast
I did not have Taco Bell
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
14451 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:32 pm to
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did not have Taco Bell
I guess there is an assplosion emoji I missed.
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
25103 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:33 pm to
$1400-1800 per kid per month is standard here.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
149209 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:44 pm to
Get an Au Pair
Posted by Everyday Is Saturday
Member since Dec 2025
548 posts
Posted on 1/7/26 at 9:46 pm to
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Being a parent is expensive


Outsourcing daytime parenting is expensive.

The stuff bought with money earned while kid(s) are in daycare will be forgotten and eventually sold in garage sales, yet missing things like their first steps…will never be remembered - far worse.

Just entered retirement. Value of time, especially with the ones you love, are so vividly vivid now. Just sharing honestly.
This post was edited on 1/7/26 at 10:14 pm
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