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Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:16 am to
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
31161 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:16 am to
Honestly , not sure I would appreciate my wife having any kind of relationship with an ex.. think that stuff goes both ways normally.

Doubt any of you would either. I wouldn't go nuts though.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:21 am
Posted by ruzil
WNC
Member since Feb 2012
18307 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:17 am to
The only hope of fixing this is to create a joint FB account.

Kickadawgitfeelsgoodandthedawgthathekicked@FB.com


Trust me it will work
Posted by MONROE
In the belly of the beast
Member since Sep 2015
4288 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:20 am to
quote:

What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy


You are obviously holding onto something. Sounds like you need to be single
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59229 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:20 am to
quote:

think I ruined my marriage

Sure did.

Nevermind the keeping up with the ex-fiance, but that should have stopped once it made your current partner uncomfortable.

But you've moved out over it several times, called her harsh names, said she looks pathetic, refuse to talk to her and won't allow her to speak to you about it.

Grow up.
Posted by sportsaddit68
Hammond
Member since Sep 2008
6509 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:20 am to
I am going to go ahead and say this is a troll and you reeled in some people.

Not because it's a good troll, but because I hope you aren't that shitty of a husband.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
37375 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:26 am to
quote:

Mature people can be friends with anybody. I have female friends that I talk to here and there, and it's totally fine (and my wife doesn't give a shite). I also text/talk to friends' wives on occasion as well, as I am friends with them too.

The difference is that there's literally nothing shady about it at all, and no reason for anybody involved to be mad/jealous/etc. Because everyone involved trusts their significant others,

Some of you are so stupid with the "men can't be friends with women, and vice versa" bullshite.


nope....sorry...but if you are regularly having conversation with women that are just friends and not like your wifes friends or your friends wives....yea...no you cant just be friends with them.

sorry its not normal to just be having conversations with friends of the opposite sex like that



1) why the frick would you want to talk on the phone like that? text or phone, why?

2) why the frick would you want to be friends with a female that has no connection to you from your wife or your friends?

weird AF if someone is just being friends with women like that. sorry if you dont like that

and im pretty mature....im over 40, been married for over 15, 3 kids, professional....its weird AF if you are being freinds with random female, especially if they are single.....hell if they are married and you are friends with her and not her husband....that is even worse
Posted by Will Cover
Davidson, NC
Member since Mar 2007
40095 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:29 am to
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Not because it's a good troll, but because I hope you aren't that shitty of a husband.


It could be a troll. But never underestimate the power of people who begin the process of digging their own grave, and keep on digging.

He believes the grass is greener somewhere else. That is why he reached out and continues to reach out. He wants to rekindle whatever past relationship he had with her. The good thoughts, even though there were bad times --- hence, why she is his ex --- are overwhelmingly positive in his mind and are worth pursuing -- his current relationship be damned. And then when his current spouse brings it up --- she's basically saying, I don't like this - please stop -- put your time and energy into me -- he's essentially saying to his current spouse you are not important to me, and your opinion doesn't matter because I won't listen to you.

This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:30 am
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
121223 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:29 am to
I don’t know what’s worse - this or the fact that you voted for Kamala.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
38663 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:33 am to
Well, that explains a lot.
Posted by LSUtiger89
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
4664 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:37 am to
Dude, you’re an idiot. Then you double down on it and try to gaslight her.

You tell her she needs to grow up. You are the one that needs to grow up acting like a high school kid and giving the silent treatment and cold shoulder. Grow up!
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79171 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:38 am to
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What you all think am I scum
Based upon your political post history, yes.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:39 am to
Lol who does this shite? I could hand off my phone at any time to my fiance with zero fear that she would find anything (yes even my TD account). There is literally no communication I would hide from her, outside of things like a surprise party or something.
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
9226 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:39 am to
quote:

What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy

Why can't both be true?
Posted by questionable
FL
Member since Apr 2008
1246 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:41 am to
Imagine being 65 and still having Facebook. That shite is for jealous women with nothing better to do.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
155902 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:42 am to
quote:

nope....sorry...but if you are regularly having conversation with women that are just friends and not like your wifes friends or your friends wives....yea...no you cant just be friends with them.

sorry its not normal to just be having conversations with friends of the opposite sex like that



1) why the frick would you want to talk on the phone like that? text or phone, why?

2) why the frick would you want to be friends with a female that has no connection to you from your wife or your friends?

weird AF if someone is just being friends with women like that. sorry if you dont like that

and im pretty mature....im over 40, been married for over 15, 3 kids, professional....its weird AF if you are being freinds with random female, especially if they are single.....hell if they are married and you are friends with her and not her husband....that is even worse

Why do you keep apologizing? And I guess I'm sorry you aren't capable of being friends with females. I'm not sure why you're assuming I'm friends with "random, single females," I'm not going out and meeting singles and befriending them.

But for example one of my friends is literally someone I have known since first grade. She and I are damn near like siblings and have been for decades. I talk to her a few times a year. My wife has met her.

Another caveat to this is that my wife and I both know each others' phone codes and don't hide our phone from each other. Because we trust each other.

Don't act like other people are incapable of plutonic, adult relationships just because you aren't.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:44 am
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10905 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:43 am to
quote:

I called her some real harsh names


Everyone seems to be glossing over this part.

You're a slimeball. Calling your wife "harsh names" is the bell that can't be un-rung. Just like hitting them. Once it's said, it's in stone. You've crossed a line and gone down a terrible path.

I know tempers can flare, but name calling is pure trash behavior to me. Remember when you said your vows and you thought "this is my person. this is the one I'm going to dedicate my life to"? Now you're calling that person names.

Was it "bitch"?

Was it "stupid"?

Those words are now indelibly etched in her mind. No going back from it.




Oh, and I see you're a kamala voter. No surprise there. Liberals are emotional morons. Never mind. Carry on. You get what you deserve.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
51234 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:43 am to
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Kickadawgitfeelsgood

Blast from the past
Posted by kennypowers
AR
Member since Mar 2009
621 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:46 am to
Clearly the next step is to get a John and Jane Doe facebook account.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
155902 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:46 am to
quote:

Everyone seems to be glossing over this part.

True.

Not only has he called her names, but based on what he's saying she tries to talk to him about it and he cold shoulders her and refuses to even discuss it. So even if she was "crazy" he isn't even open to talking about it and potentially moving past it. And this is someone he's been with for 15 years with multiple kids and whatnot.

Someone a page or so ago summed it up best when they said the simplest form of this is that he wants to throw away his family so he can talk to an ex. That's pretty sad.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
15055 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:46 am to
In this matter, he would be okay with it as it would justify his actions.
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