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re: I think I ruined my marriage
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:16 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:16 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Honestly , not sure I would appreciate my wife having any kind of relationship with an ex.. think that stuff goes both ways normally.
Doubt any of you would either. I wouldn't go nuts though.
Doubt any of you would either. I wouldn't go nuts though.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:21 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:17 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
The only hope of fixing this is to create a joint FB account.
Kickadawgitfeelsgoodandthedawgthathekicked@FB.com
Trust me it will work
Kickadawgitfeelsgoodandthedawgthathekicked@FB.com
Trust me it will work
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:20 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy
You are obviously holding onto something. Sounds like you need to be single
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:20 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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think I ruined my marriage
Sure did.
Nevermind the keeping up with the ex-fiance, but that should have stopped once it made your current partner uncomfortable.
But you've moved out over it several times, called her harsh names, said she looks pathetic, refuse to talk to her and won't allow her to speak to you about it.
Grow up.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:20 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
I am going to go ahead and say this is a troll and you reeled in some people.
Not because it's a good troll, but because I hope you aren't that shitty of a husband.
Not because it's a good troll, but because I hope you aren't that shitty of a husband.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:26 am to CocomoLSU
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Mature people can be friends with anybody. I have female friends that I talk to here and there, and it's totally fine (and my wife doesn't give a shite). I also text/talk to friends' wives on occasion as well, as I am friends with them too.
The difference is that there's literally nothing shady about it at all, and no reason for anybody involved to be mad/jealous/etc. Because everyone involved trusts their significant others,
Some of you are so stupid with the "men can't be friends with women, and vice versa" bullshite.
nope....sorry...but if you are regularly having conversation with women that are just friends and not like your wifes friends or your friends wives....yea...no you cant just be friends with them.
sorry its not normal to just be having conversations with friends of the opposite sex like that
1) why the frick would you want to talk on the phone like that? text or phone, why?
2) why the frick would you want to be friends with a female that has no connection to you from your wife or your friends?
weird AF if someone is just being friends with women like that. sorry if you dont like that
and im pretty mature....im over 40, been married for over 15, 3 kids, professional....its weird AF if you are being freinds with random female, especially if they are single.....hell if they are married and you are friends with her and not her husband....that is even worse
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:29 am to sportsaddit68
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Not because it's a good troll, but because I hope you aren't that shitty of a husband.
It could be a troll. But never underestimate the power of people who begin the process of digging their own grave, and keep on digging.
He believes the grass is greener somewhere else. That is why he reached out and continues to reach out. He wants to rekindle whatever past relationship he had with her. The good thoughts, even though there were bad times --- hence, why she is his ex --- are overwhelmingly positive in his mind and are worth pursuing -- his current relationship be damned. And then when his current spouse brings it up --- she's basically saying, I don't like this - please stop -- put your time and energy into me -- he's essentially saying to his current spouse you are not important to me, and your opinion doesn't matter because I won't listen to you.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:30 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:29 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
I don’t know what’s worse - this or the fact that you voted for Kamala.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:37 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Dude, you’re an idiot. Then you double down on it and try to gaslight her.
You tell her she needs to grow up. You are the one that needs to grow up acting like a high school kid and giving the silent treatment and cold shoulder. Grow up!
You tell her she needs to grow up. You are the one that needs to grow up acting like a high school kid and giving the silent treatment and cold shoulder. Grow up!
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:38 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
quote:Based upon your political post history, yes.
What you all think am I scum
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:39 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Lol who does this shite? I could hand off my phone at any time to my fiance with zero fear that she would find anything (yes even my TD account). There is literally no communication I would hide from her, outside of things like a surprise party or something.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:39 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy
Why can't both be true?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:41 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Imagine being 65 and still having Facebook. That shite is for jealous women with nothing better to do.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:42 am to lsu777
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nope....sorry...but if you are regularly having conversation with women that are just friends and not like your wifes friends or your friends wives....yea...no you cant just be friends with them.
sorry its not normal to just be having conversations with friends of the opposite sex like that
1) why the frick would you want to talk on the phone like that? text or phone, why?
2) why the frick would you want to be friends with a female that has no connection to you from your wife or your friends?
weird AF if someone is just being friends with women like that. sorry if you dont like that
and im pretty mature....im over 40, been married for over 15, 3 kids, professional....its weird AF if you are being freinds with random female, especially if they are single.....hell if they are married and you are friends with her and not her husband....that is even worse
Why do you keep apologizing? And I guess I'm sorry you aren't capable of being friends with females. I'm not sure why you're assuming I'm friends with "random, single females," I'm not going out and meeting singles and befriending them.
But for example one of my friends is literally someone I have known since first grade. She and I are damn near like siblings and have been for decades. I talk to her a few times a year. My wife has met her.
Another caveat to this is that my wife and I both know each others' phone codes and don't hide our phone from each other. Because we trust each other.
Don't act like other people are incapable of plutonic, adult relationships just because you aren't.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:44 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:43 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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I called her some real harsh names
Everyone seems to be glossing over this part.
You're a slimeball. Calling your wife "harsh names" is the bell that can't be un-rung. Just like hitting them. Once it's said, it's in stone. You've crossed a line and gone down a terrible path.
I know tempers can flare, but name calling is pure trash behavior to me. Remember when you said your vows and you thought "this is my person. this is the one I'm going to dedicate my life to"? Now you're calling that person names.
Was it "bitch"?
Was it "stupid"?
Those words are now indelibly etched in her mind. No going back from it.
Oh, and I see you're a kamala voter. No surprise there. Liberals are emotional morons. Never mind. Carry on. You get what you deserve.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:43 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
quote:
Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Blast from the past
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:46 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Clearly the next step is to get a John and Jane Doe facebook account.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:46 am to TygerTyger
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Everyone seems to be glossing over this part.
True.
Not only has he called her names, but based on what he's saying she tries to talk to him about it and he cold shoulders her and refuses to even discuss it. So even if she was "crazy" he isn't even open to talking about it and potentially moving past it. And this is someone he's been with for 15 years with multiple kids and whatnot.
Someone a page or so ago summed it up best when they said the simplest form of this is that he wants to throw away his family so he can talk to an ex. That's pretty sad.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:46 am to tigerinms
In this matter, he would be okay with it as it would justify his actions.
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