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re: My daughter passed away...
Posted on 11/13/23 at 9:51 am to Hurricane2020
Posted on 11/13/23 at 9:51 am to Hurricane2020
So sorry for your loss.
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Posted on 11/13/23 at 9:51 am to Hurricane2020
I'm sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 9:51 am to texn
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I am so sorry, Hurricane. Praying for you and your wife.
Having gone through virtually the same thing about 20 years ago myself, I would like to offer some advice:
1. It will take you months before you can make it through a day without crying
2. It will take you years before you can make it through a week without crying.
3. I will let you know how long it takes to get thru a month without crying when I find out.
4. Don't let the grief drive a distance between your wife & yourself. Share, talk, hug, cry together. I read somewhere that the divorce rate for parents who go through something like this is shockingly high because it is a huge stress.
5. Get grief counseling. I probably wouldn't be here if I didn't see a psychiatrist to help with the overwhelming pain and grief. Get someone who specializes in grief counseling. Seek out support groups. There are many of us out here (I didn't realize the number of acquaintances that I had that had similar losses until I suffered mine).
6. it will get better because it sure as hell can't get worse...what you went through is probably the worst thing that could happen to a person
I'm glad you got to hold your daughter. I got to hold mine. That's why the worst day of my life is also the best day.
Hang in there brother.
I just found your thread from early this morning. The above advice is excellent. Also, ask God for comfort and peace. I know you said you don't ask God for help, but if you put Him in your life, you may be surprised at how He makes a difference.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 9:53 am to Hurricane2020
Just read your previous post. i have no words. My heart is broken for you and your wife.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 10:02 am to Hurricane2020
Sorry for your loss. Keep strong and keep moving forward.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 10:13 am to Hurricane2020
Really sorry to hear of your loss. I am heart broken for you.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 10:17 am to Hurricane2020
So very sorry, we grieve with you
Posted on 11/13/23 at 10:20 am to Hurricane2020
Life can be incredible, and life can be cruel. Take solace in the fact that your daughter felt so immensely loved by you and your wife, even if it was only for a brief time.
I hope you can find peace, whenever that may be.
I hope you can find peace, whenever that may be.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 10:51 am to Hurricane2020
So sorry. I can't even imagine how painful this is. Will pray for you and your family
Posted on 11/13/23 at 10:53 am to Hurricane2020
Sorry to hear that bad news and prayers for all.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 10:57 am to PikesPeak
Never know how strong you are until you have to be
I can't imagine how you feel right now.
Strangers words are hardly comforting but this is heartfelt sorry
Born to be your Angel
I can't imagine how you feel right now.
Strangers words are hardly comforting but this is heartfelt sorry
Born to be your Angel
This post was edited on 11/13/23 at 11:23 am
Posted on 11/13/23 at 11:13 am to Hurricane2020
very sorry for your loss 
Posted on 11/13/23 at 11:16 am to Hurricane2020
So sorry. Breaks my heart
Posted on 11/13/23 at 11:37 am to Hurricane2020
You daughter is you and your wife's angel. You may not see it now, but you will one day. I'm so very sorry she lost her life. And I so very sorry for the pain you are your family are going through.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 11:42 am to Hurricane2020
Thoughts and prayers to you
Posted on 11/13/23 at 11:54 am to Hurricane2020
Prayers to you and yours.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 12:05 pm to Hurricane2020
Prayers for you and your family. It is horrible to say the least. Unfortunately, my wife and I have been through this twice in the last 10 years. May God bring comfort and strength to you and your family!
Posted on 11/13/23 at 12:07 pm to Hurricane2020
Incredibly sorry for your loss. Can't imagine what you are going through. Reading this truly puts things in perspective to not take for granted having 2 healthy kids of my own. I pray God brings you and your wife peace.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 12:22 pm to Hurricane2020
This is sickening news to hear. We are saddened by your loss and pain.
There are times in our lives when things are bigger than we can manage on our own. Faith and community are needed to recover. Embrace these.
We pray for your healing and comfort.
There are times in our lives when things are bigger than we can manage on our own. Faith and community are needed to recover. Embrace these.
We pray for your healing and comfort.
Posted on 11/13/23 at 12:31 pm to Hurricane2020
Saying a prayer for your family at this difficult time.
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