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Posted on 8/6/18 at 2:45 pm to
Posted by Me so gumpy
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2018
174 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 2:45 pm to
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Is it really true that once you go black you don't go back?


Black dicks really are bigger than white ones but shite they're scary looking.

I knew a guy once who's mom was white and dad was black. He looked black though and i asked him "did you at least get the dick"?

He hung his head and quietly said no.

All the hassles of being black and denied the only perk. That's just cold.

Give me a ten inch dick the size of a baby's arm and you can color me as black as wesley snipes.

Anyway, black women intimidate me. I'm not sure i could satisfy them.
This post was edited on 8/6/18 at 2:48 pm
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64244 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 2:46 pm to
quote:

You're just a loser dont blame the ladies.




Nah Volod is a good dude.
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
36944 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 2:48 pm to
quote:

Well simple, dont date a princess. Date a white collar working woman.


Yeah, there's a line between poor and high maintenance rich women.

Have to find the sweet spot.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13524 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 2:49 pm to
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Yeah, there's a line between poor and high maintenance rich women.



but what's confusing is all of the women in that subreddit seem to be high maintenance poor women... basically advertising they are the worst of both worlds
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
47372 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 2:50 pm to
quote:

learn how to dance

100% effective
Posted by Murtown
OT Ballerville
Member since Sep 2014
1767 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 2:52 pm to
quote:

Fat girl entitlement


You mean phat girl entitlement.
Posted by volod
Leesville, LA
Member since Jun 2014
5392 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:06 pm to
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black ? It doesn't really matter just curious if you are white then why do you only date black women? Is it really true that once you go black you don't go back?





I'm black. And that saying is an exaggeration.

The truth is it depends on what a woman wants. Some women are attracted to the body types and aggressive behavior of black men. So they are more inclined to date them. But white women overall prefer their own race.

I will have to find the study, but the trend they found is interesting.

White and other WoC typically prefer white men

White men prefer Asian women but are ok with other women with a low tolerance for black women.

Black women generally prefer to be with black men. This is due in part to cultural influences and the fact that they are not seen as conventionally attractive to other races of men.

OkCupid Study
This post was edited on 8/6/18 at 3:17 pm
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56597 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:09 pm to
quote:

White men prefer Asian women but are ok with other women with a low tolerance for black women.



IIRC black women are the least desired combo race/gender group, followed by Asian men. Each respective group is the most masculine or feminine among their peers, phenotypically speaking.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
74071 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:15 pm to
quote:

Well simple, dont date a princess. Date a white collar working woman.



my wife's best friend's husband. i feel soo bad for this guy.

His wife grew up super poor, white trailer trash. She was cute and managed to go to college where they met. They got together. She got a teaching degree. He got a mechanical engineering degree. He comes from well off grandparents who spoil him. Partly because his father dipped out when he was super young. But he himself is super grounded, works hard, and is a good ol southern baw. She is now teaching theater at the high school level, so her income is 1/3rd of his. Combined income is $150k, but he's doing well where he works and will soon get a management gig.


This chick tho.... Her self-worth is sky high. She is the definition of a pretentious princess. How he puts up with it blows my mind. I get sick of her shite on weekend trip amongst couples. And sometimes i wish i could limit how much my wife hangs out with her. She's a terrible influence. Few examples:

First home they bought together last year, was a $315k home, in a gated neighborhood, that is brand spanking new. Their mortgage is like $2500/month. His grandfather put down the $50k down payment for them. It hasn't even been a year and she wants to sell it for a bigger house, in a better neighborhood, and find a house with a pool.

She drove a 2015 Mercedes when we first met them. First time it hiccuped, they went upside down on it, to trade it in for a brand new 2018 Jeep Cherokee, fully loaded. LOL, and the note on it was more than the Mercedes was. She has driven it since March. Hates the Cherokee now. Wants to get rid of it and get another new Mercedes. "It matches my style better". ...... a teacher.

She's also ran up about $10-12k in credit card debt shopping and luxurious vacations (Italy for 2 weeks in 2016).

When we plan couples trips together. We can't ever just find somewhere reasonable for $200-250 a couple per night. Regardless if we'll only be sleeping there at night. Nope. She demands we "stop living like college students" and guilt trips the other wives into staying somewhere ridiculous. Same thing when we all go out to eat or do something entertaining. I call this the "boujie factor". If it's not "boujie" (this chick's favorite word) for her to post on her Instagram or Snapchat for her 300 online friends, then it's not good enough for her to waste her time on or be associated with, so she throws a fit or refuses to go. which is weird, when all her husband wants to do is bass fish and drink beer on the weekend.

I have 0 clue how this dude puts up with it or how he can possibly sustain her level of spending long term. Unless he eventually makes that type of money associated with her lifestyle. If it wasn't for his rich grandparents as "benefactors" to her/their lifestyle, I'm pretty sure they'd be broke as frick because of some serious debt.


long post. but this woman is the prime example of the unrealistic expectations that some very basic women have nowadays for their husbands.
This post was edited on 8/6/18 at 3:25 pm
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10876 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:17 pm to
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volod


Culcha
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
11169 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:22 pm to
Online or in person, the most important question you will have to discretely ask is “what kind of relationship does she have with daddy?” Figure that out and that’ll answer a lot.

As women get older so does the scorn level. They know how to fight and they hit below the belt.
This post was edited on 8/6/18 at 3:23 pm
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
69704 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:25 pm to
Men argue to be right. Women argue to win.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:29 pm to
quote:

Is it really true that once you go black you don't go back?


Perhaps the operative word is "can't"
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43320 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:30 pm to
Damn, I am going to pour one out for that baw.


This goes back to my principles prior to meeting my GF.

1) Must have a degree
2) Must be in the same salary range
3) Must have intellect
4) Adequate sex drive
5) Big boobs are nice but not mandatory.

I am okay with sacrificing/doing with less on everything else. I have lived on my own for roughly 11 years. I cook, clean, fix shite, etc.

When you stick to your guns and not let vag dictate your next step life becomes easier. I and my GF sometimes don't see eye to eye but I promise you, because of the reasons above in what I look for and the plethora of non sexual things she brings to the table, I desire to work on things with her rather than feel obligated to. That's the biggest difference to me from this relationship vs. the past failures. I always felt obligated to shoulder the load and I didn't really ask myself why.



Posted by cajunbuck
R-KANSAS
Member since Sep 2017
997 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:38 pm to
quote:

it seems lsu nola has alot of hotties


so does this mean you had a semi successful trip to the strip bar?? how much you spend baw? get a handy??
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:40 pm to
i didnt end up going
Posted by volod
Leesville, LA
Member since Jun 2014
5392 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:47 pm to
quote:


As women get older so does the scorn level. They know how to fight and they hit below the belt.




I agree with the father talk. The other issue is the pool of men they want vs reality. If a single man has himself together, why does he have to settle for a single mother. Granted, their are some good single moms out there. But all else being equal, a man doesn't want to take care of another man's child.

I'm speaking to the 18 to 35 demographic. At a certain point it's just expected women have kids. But at that level, your rule still applies. And you have to look at how involved the Ex is and what her level of expectations are. In many cases it's not worth the hassle.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:58 pm to
hot educated indian girl would be nice
for white girl it would need to a girl who went to catholic school in the south and top tier sorority but with good job prospects
for black girl, where can i find one that acts white
This post was edited on 8/6/18 at 3:59 pm
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20557 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 3:59 pm to
I don't get the Asian thing . I find some of them attractive but it's the exception rather than the rule. I think a lot of white men buy into the idea that Asian women have a tighter fit than other women. Maybe they are right in this line of thinking because I have no experience with Asian women.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62689 posts
Posted on 8/6/18 at 4:05 pm to
Maybe some people have different preferences as far as the types of women to whom they are attracted?
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