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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:52 pm to
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26518 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:52 pm to
This topic is played out, but there's a reason why the saying, "it takes two to Tango" exists.

If the mistress knows that the dude is married, or the other way around, they are both equally too blame and both pieces of shite. Period.
Posted by MardiGrasCajun
Dirty Coast, MS
Member since Sep 2005
6000 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:52 pm to
Some married folks up in here down voting. Too funny. You’re a piece of shite if you cheat while married. Ask God…he’s already laid out the rules. That’s why the ramifications are so intense when you get caught.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26518 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:53 pm to
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Unethical, sure, but an unmarried person has no responsibility in another marriage between 2 others.


If she knows he's married, this is total bullshite. The only people that post shite like this are looking to cheat and excuse it.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
10941 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:55 pm to
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f she knows he's married, this is total bullshite. The only people that post shite like this are looking to cheat and excuse it.


bullshite. The mistress didn’t swear vows. What she’s doing is unethical but she has nothing to do with the vows between two other people.
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
6723 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:56 pm to
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Cry me a river. Man up and go see your wife.

I'm saying moment of weakness like what if a woman just had a huge fight with her husband and she is really mad at him. Her male coworker overhears about it and decides to put the moves on her because he thinks he might have a chance since the husband is in the doghouse. That male coworker is a piece of shite for trying to frick a married woman.
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
6864 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:56 pm to
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The mistress didn’t swear vows. What she’s doing is unethical but she has nothing to do with the vows between two other people.


This is where I stand.
But, I still blame mistress a tad.
Posted by ATrillionaire
Houston
Member since Sep 2008
2831 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:56 pm to
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If she knows he's married, this is total bullshite. The only people that post shite like this are looking to cheat and excuse it.

Or, maybe many married people believe this also because they can't fathom letting someone cause them to betray their spouse. Accountability.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
92725 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:58 pm to
quote:

was, and still am, under the very strong impression that the married person, who has a vow most of the time, and is in committed, legal relationship bears the vast majority of the "responsibility
ya think???

How trashy are your friends?
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26518 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:58 pm to
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bullshite. The mistress didn’t swear vows. What she’s doing is unethical but she has nothing to do with the vows between two other people.


No, what you post is bullshite. At least be honest in this thread. You're either a single guy looking to bone married chicks, or you used to, and you take no accountability for being a shite piece. It's ok to admit it, this is your safe space.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
24355 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:58 pm to
The married person in to very near 100%.

Posted by ClemsonKitten
Member since Aug 2025
914 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:58 pm to
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As a guy, I don’t understand how a married man could cheat on his wife. I get it when the wife cheats because women are vain and weak


Was your wife your first and only?
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
9964 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 5:58 pm to
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The married person is 100% to blame. They made the commitment.


Unless the mistress didn’t know he was married, she’s just as equally guilty.
Posted by ATrillionaire
Houston
Member since Sep 2008
2831 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:00 pm to
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Unless the mistress didn’t know he was married, she’s just as equally guilty.

Absurd
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26518 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:01 pm to
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Accountability


He broke the vow. She helped break it. Math isn’t hard. That's a 50/50 equation where if the mistress didn't exist, it wouldn't happen.
Posted by ATrillionaire
Houston
Member since Sep 2008
2831 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:02 pm to
Clearly you don't put much value on a vow.

Fyi, she can't help break a vow she didn't take.
This post was edited on 1/15/26 at 6:03 pm
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
10941 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:03 pm to
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He broke the vow. She helped break it. Math isn’t hard. That's a 50/50


She has nothing to do with a vow, he does.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5992 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:03 pm to
I’m pretty simple, but the married one doing the cheating is to blame. A vow was made and that person broke it; not the wife, not the mistress. Just my humble opinion.
Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
6723 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:03 pm to
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Clearly you don't put much value on a vow.

Clearly you don't either if you think it's okay to intentionally try and tempt people who have made vows to break them. That's some legit evil shite right there.
This post was edited on 1/15/26 at 6:05 pm
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26518 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:03 pm to
quote:

Clearly you don't put much value on a vow.


On the contrary, I value them enough not to outsource their destruction.

50/50
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
6864 posts
Posted on 1/15/26 at 6:04 pm to
quote:

He broke the vow. She helped break it. Math isn’t hard. That's a 50/50 equation where if the mistress didn't exist, it wouldn't happen.


But SHE didn't make the vow, so SHE didn't break a vow of her own.
So, how is it 50/50?
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