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re: Need advice for groomsmen gifts

Posted on 9/28/20 at 8:17 am to
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
5325 posts
Posted on 9/28/20 at 8:17 am to
Agreed. It gets out of hand paying for all that stuff. It's easy to spend other peoples' money, and the two worst offenders are the best man and the bride.

Some of the best weddings I've been to let us wear our own tuxedo or all buy a similar suit from a store, then at least keep it and use it if needed later.

As for the knife gift idea, I had a bad experience. Received one two summers ago and cut myself pretty bad a few nights later, probably shouldn't have had the knife out after that many beers.
Posted by TrouserTrout
Member since Nov 2017
6425 posts
Posted on 9/28/20 at 8:48 am to
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A weekend Luggage bag, camp, with their initials in hunters orange.
He asked about groomsmen, not bridesmaids.
Posted by Captain Rumbeard
Member since Jan 2014
6801 posts
Posted on 9/28/20 at 1:45 pm to
Spyderco

Most useful knives ever made for every day carry.
Posted by bpinson
Ms
Member since May 2010
2674 posts
Posted on 9/28/20 at 9:46 pm to
What is your email address, I make knives.
Posted by Outdoorreb
Member since Oct 2019
2764 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 6:46 am to
Well, the fiancé lost her shite when I said I was going to get a custom bench made. Begged me not to go over a hundred dollars per groomsmen because she googled it and normally it’s a 50-100$ gift. I told her I would take it into consideration, lol. Now I’m thinking she is right.
We are headed out to the marsh next weekend for bachelor trip, and I told them I would pay for my part for the captain. For the suits they could rent or buy it because I picked the colors so it would hard to tell a difference.
The fiancé has basically convinced me to get a candle holder that is made out of real deer antlers, and it is under 100$. She said to just get a present like that for Christmas not groomsmen gifts.
Posted by awestruck
Member since Jan 2015
14118 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 6:59 am to
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I know y’all will have some great ideas.
The very best?


Move the date to one not in football or hunting season... they'll all appreciate it... but not as much as you come every year.
Posted by reds on reds on reds
Member since Sep 2013
4936 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 7:04 am to
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She said to just get a present like that for Christmas not groomsmen gifts.


Give them the candle holders for christmas and the knives for groomsmen gifts.
Posted by ABucks11
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
1235 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 8:47 am to
What dude wants a candle holder?
Posted by nolaks
Member since Dec 2013
1312 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 8:53 am to
One wedding I was in the guy gave us a gift certificate for a really nice suit that we all wore in the wedding. I have the suit on today
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
5325 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 9:31 am to
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The fiancé has basically convinced me to get a candle holder


With all due respect, I don't know of any guy friends that have ever coveted or even thought of a candle holder.

I know this is a PITA process and you are trying to get through it with your sanity and I'm not trying to break your balls.

Maybe check the sales page at Orvis or Duluth Pack. For example, the mens accessories page at Orvis has something called "MKM Fara knife" for sale at 99/ea. There's also some nice 12g shell belts and bison belts for just under 100. Those could be worn for years.

Also Duluth Pack has shell bags in Mossy Oak pattern for $105. Their stuff will last forever, DP got their start making BWCA gear.

Finally, Sunglass Hut is having some wicked sales. I bought a few pair of Persols and with their sales deals, I was under $100/pair. That would be a kickass gift, those are really nice glasses.
Posted by AyyyBaw
Member since Jan 2020
1221 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 9:31 am to
I gave fixed blade Ka-Bars, not the full-size tactical ones, but the hunter size. Two of the groomsmen cut themselves that night. At least half of them are still around 6 years later. I use mine all the time when in the woods.
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
5325 posts
Posted on 9/29/20 at 9:32 am to
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Two of the groomsmen cut themselves that night.


Been there, done that. Blood all over the golf cart. Some days I am not the brightest crayon in the box.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
33284 posts
Posted on 10/2/20 at 3:47 pm to
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Trying to keep it under 3-400 per groom.
Goddamn son, you a Rockefeller or something?
Posted by Got Blaze
Youngsville
Member since Dec 2013
9975 posts
Posted on 10/2/20 at 5:55 pm to
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Well, the fiancé lost her shite when I said I was going to get a custom bench made. Begged me not to go over a hundred dollars per groomsmen because she googled it and normally it’s a 50-100$ gift.

Baw, you’re not even married yet and the future Mrs. Outdooreb is dictating how much you can spend on your friends. $50 deer antler candle holder ? C’mon Man .... it’s your wedding too, buy what YOU want for your friends.
Posted by Possumslayer
Pascagoula
Member since Jan 2018
6474 posts
Posted on 10/2/20 at 6:35 pm to
I’m wondering what she’s spending on the bridesmaids?
Posted by dirtsandwich
AL
Member since May 2016
6722 posts
Posted on 10/2/20 at 7:38 pm to
Not that you should give a shite, but I vote no on the candles. Negatory.

Posted by Ol boy
Member since Oct 2018
4107 posts
Posted on 10/2/20 at 7:52 pm to
If your groomsmen are not the kind of people who would bust your balls for buying them a candlestick holder then they don’t deserve gifts anyway.
Why would she care if you spent 100$ on that and not let you spend 100$ on a nice knife. They are going to prolly spend a ton on all kind of stupid shite “ monogrammed robes with matching slippers and matching shirts for the bachelorette party and monogrammed yeti mugs for their white claws.
Posted by Goldensammy
Cypress, TX
Member since Jun 2016
973 posts
Posted on 10/3/20 at 9:35 am to
Candlestick holder...really? I'd be pissed that you wasted money on that if you were to gift that to me. Those will end up in one of two places, garage sale or trash.
Posted by Dale Doubak
Somewhere
Member since Jan 2012
6000 posts
Posted on 10/3/20 at 11:54 am to
I bought large camo duffle bags with initials sewn in. Put a flask and an engraved filet knife inside
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