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re: Divorce is brutal.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 3:38 pm to PetroBabich
Posted on 11/5/20 at 3:38 pm to PetroBabich
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Why are you divorcing someone you're still in love with?
I’m not the one filing. I have fought so hard to make things work and still would if given the chance.
But he has made up his mind. He says he doesn’t feel like he should in the marriage. I know 100% there isn’t anyone else. He works from home and never leaves the house except to run errands or go mountain biking. I still actually see him almost everyday to drop off our pug(he works from home now so it’s a better situation for the dog than sitting locked up in a kennel at my tiny apartment). We are very civil to one another and he knows I still love him and feel he is making a big mistake. Divorce is totally being done on our own without any lawyers, hell I don’t think I even have to step inside a court.
So who knows. I’m being realistic and not fighting the divorce and will do what I need to do to move on and just focus on myself right now but hanging on to a small sliver of hope that who knows what the future holds. Maybe once things are final he will eventually realize what a mistake he has made.
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Posted on 11/5/20 at 3:39 pm to lsunurse
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lsunurse
Sorry to hear about this nurse
Posted on 11/5/20 at 3:40 pm to lsunurse
Wishing you the best..just remember its not your failure..
Hope you find some peace through your new beginning..
Hope you find some peace through your new beginning..
Posted on 11/5/20 at 3:43 pm to lsunurse
You have over 120,000 posts on just this site.
Maybe consider that when it comes to your husband wanting out?
Maybe consider that when it comes to your husband wanting out?
Posted on 11/5/20 at 4:02 pm to mikelbr
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They need you more than ever. I promise. God Damn I promise you they need you. And don't talk bad about their mama. Just be Daddy.
Wise words. It’s hard sometimes but remember, those kids are half her as much as they are half you.
They need to see you as the rock they can count on. The oak they can shelter under.
And look, they are gonna be the only thing that gets you through this shite sometimes. Love those babies and hold them tight
Posted on 11/5/20 at 4:16 pm to lsunurse
I really feel for you, nurse. I definitely know what it’s like to be on the side that wanted to work things out. It’s never easy. Staying out of court saves a lot of time and money, but divorce always sucks.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 4:20 pm to lsunurse
lsunurse.
Sorry you're going through this. I was divorced in 2017 after 23 years of marriage. Toughest thing I ever had to deal with.
Sorry you're going through this. I was divorced in 2017 after 23 years of marriage. Toughest thing I ever had to deal with.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 4:34 pm to fallguy_1978
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I know I've stood in a couple of friend's weddings where I knew it wouldn't last 5 years. The two I'm thinking of lasted 1 & 2 years.
I've stood in one where I thought, no way it lasts 5 years. They made 20 this year.
Another one, I thought, perfect couple. They will grow old together. Last 6 years, they broke up when he got busted for child porn.
You never know.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 5:26 pm to PrivatePublic
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You have over 120,000 posts on just this site.
Maybe consider that when it comes to your husband wanting out?
Rude! Posting here isn’t like putting booty pics on Instagram or something.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 5:37 pm to PrivatePublic
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You have over 120,000 posts on just this site.
Maybe consider that when it comes to your husband wanting out?
Maybe you should consider not being such a phäggot
Posted on 11/5/20 at 6:26 pm to lsunurse
Nurse, I am very sorry to read this. I know how you feel. It appears that you have a good attitude and have a much better grasp of the concept of acceptance than I had.
I will say a prayer for you that you continue to be able to accept what you cannot control and be given strength and peace. God Bless.
I will say a prayer for you that you continue to be able to accept what you cannot control and be given strength and peace. God Bless.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 6:32 pm to AlbertMeansWell
Posted on 11/5/20 at 6:33 pm to AlbertMeansWell
Wait til you go to court and they treat you like a criminal.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 6:37 pm to GardenDistrictTiger
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Divorce is terrible. I didn't get any relief from being messed with by her until she died unexpectedly. Hate it for my children, but my life has improved dramatically.
How did you kill her? Poison?
Posted on 11/5/20 at 8:11 pm to AUCE05
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You should try cancer.
Try changing jobs because of Katrina
Had cancer and treatment
And a divorce
All within 12 months
Posted on 11/5/20 at 8:30 pm to HeadSlash
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Didn't Coach O file for divorce after signing that $42 million contract? He wanted out bad.
Well when your wife is sleeping around on you and it was filed prior to the new contract.
Posted on 11/5/20 at 8:35 pm to AlbertMeansWell
Got married at 19 was divorced at 22. All my fault though. Was so young and such a frickin idiot but hell continued the idiocy for several years after. Daily binge drinking and cocaine use ruined it all. I'm sober now and it still haunts me with what could have been. She was and still is perfect.
This post was edited on 11/5/20 at 8:36 pm
Posted on 11/5/20 at 8:35 pm to AlbertMeansWell
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Not to go into details but god damn it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever been through.
Lose both of your parents within 13 months
Posted on 11/5/20 at 8:43 pm to AlbertMeansWell
I'm with you man. shite is terrible.
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