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Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:25 am to
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
138125 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:25 am to
Seems fake.
Posted by CincinnatiTiger
Cincinnati, OH
Member since May 2010
904 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:25 am to
Maybe you’re the problem?

I’ll need pics of your wife first…but can setup a win / win for you. DM for details.

You either:

Are the problem in the bed…

Or

She cheats and you keep your boat, house etc…
Posted by GeauxGutsy
Member since Jul 2017
5922 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to
Sounds like your wife needs the affair because she not interested in you.

Pics of wife?
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
92672 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to
quote:

I am still on the fence here and could really use some poignant thoughts to help me decide what to do. If you've pulled off a successful affair I would really like to hear your story and advice.


youve come to the right place.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to
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Married 12 years, wonderful wife and mother with one major exception: an absolute fish in the bedroom. No desire whatsoever. We've done counseling and tried therapies, and obviously have talked it out and fought it out: nothing changes. It wasn't always like this. In our early years she was all over me. We have since had kids and developed hella more responsibilities so some slowdown is not unexpected. But her major excuse for her complete disinterest is that we don't do the same things as when it was just us, so she doesn't feel the same feels. No shite, woman! That hasn't dampened my desire! And the wonderful mother you've evolved into only adds to my fire. But I guess its the opposite for her. She apparently wants to have me around as husband and father and provider, but frick my 24 year old self. I know the honorable thing would be to divorce but I refuse to do that to the kids. This is an itch that is not getting scratched and it has become so intolerable it is causing resentment that is bleeding into other areas. My family deserves better. I have to scratch this itch without them knowing. An opportunity has presented itself. A couple I know just divorced. The wife made a pass at me a few years ago. At the time I played dumb. But since then rumors have swirled that she is a freak and they were members of the pineapple gang (makes sense looking back). Now she says she is job hunting in another city so she won't be around long. I think if I am clear upfront that this will just be a sex transaction that it won't deter her from leaving and I will be in the clear, itch scratched and I can release the resentment so harbored and be a better member of my family. I am still on the fence here and could really use some poignant thoughts to help me decide what to do. If you've pulled off a successful affair I would really like to hear your story and advice.



Quoted for your wife’s future divorce attorney
Posted by redstickrick
Laffy, La
Member since May 2019
451 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to
May not be what you want to hear but dont cheat on your wife. Massive regret. You'll never forgive yourself. Justification now seems reasonable but regret later will make you wonder how you ever justified it.
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
47658 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:27 am to
I'll help you.

You've gotten fat, old and miserable and you're blaming it all on your wife.
Posted by Captain Crown
Member since Jun 2011
56789 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:27 am to
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
Member since May 2017
23624 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:28 am to

Screwing that other woman won’t make your libido go away.
Posted by Who_Dat_Tiger
Member since Nov 2015
25246 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:28 am to
That gifs depressing af
Posted by BU Bear In BR
NOLA
Member since Apr 2022
440 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:28 am to
quote:

You've gotten fat, old and miserable and you're blaming it all on your wife.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
170450 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:29 am to
This is where my chauffeur parked my vehicle !
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53353 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:29 am to
You'll do it again and keep doing it.
Posted by FredBear
Georgia
Member since Aug 2017
17238 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:31 am to
Alcohol OP, copious amounts of alcohol. That's all I got
Posted by BU Bear In BR
NOLA
Member since Apr 2022
440 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:31 am to
I know it's your first post, but rule #1... pics baw!

Don't have an affair, someone said it best earlier, but you'll regret it forever. If you're gonna try and stick it through for the kids, might as well keeping trying to make the marriage better. If not, the divorce is inevitable and she gets half your shite.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
41172 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:32 am to
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That gifs depressing af


I was waiting for the slide where the husband sets the wife on fire and the kids get raised by their grandparents.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6356 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:32 am to
Ask your wife if you can have a girlfriend.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59229 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:32 am to
So first off, I hate you.

I really don't know where to go from here.

NEVER have an affair. That ruins the persons trust forever. What will you kids think when they find out? And your wife.

If it is that bad just watch some porn or divorce your wife amicably.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
14110 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:33 am to
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I know the honorable thing would be to divorce but I refuse to do that to the kids.


Your kids will think less of you if they found out you cheated on their mom than if you divorced her.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:33 am to
Dunno why people seemingly don't believe the story. Young couple growing up together and the woman becomes disinterested while the man is still attracted to her
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