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re: I think I need an affair to save my marriage
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:25 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:25 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Seems fake.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:25 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Maybe you’re the problem?
I’ll need pics of your wife first…but can setup a win / win for you. DM for details.
You either:
Are the problem in the bed…
Or
She cheats and you keep your boat, house etc…
I’ll need pics of your wife first…but can setup a win / win for you. DM for details.
You either:
Are the problem in the bed…
Or
She cheats and you keep your boat, house etc…
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Sounds like your wife needs the affair because she not interested in you.
Pics of wife?
Pics of wife?
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
quote:
I am still on the fence here and could really use some poignant thoughts to help me decide what to do. If you've pulled off a successful affair I would really like to hear your story and advice.
youve come to the right place.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
quote:
Married 12 years, wonderful wife and mother with one major exception: an absolute fish in the bedroom. No desire whatsoever. We've done counseling and tried therapies, and obviously have talked it out and fought it out: nothing changes. It wasn't always like this. In our early years she was all over me. We have since had kids and developed hella more responsibilities so some slowdown is not unexpected. But her major excuse for her complete disinterest is that we don't do the same things as when it was just us, so she doesn't feel the same feels. No shite, woman! That hasn't dampened my desire! And the wonderful mother you've evolved into only adds to my fire. But I guess its the opposite for her. She apparently wants to have me around as husband and father and provider, but frick my 24 year old self. I know the honorable thing would be to divorce but I refuse to do that to the kids. This is an itch that is not getting scratched and it has become so intolerable it is causing resentment that is bleeding into other areas. My family deserves better. I have to scratch this itch without them knowing. An opportunity has presented itself. A couple I know just divorced. The wife made a pass at me a few years ago. At the time I played dumb. But since then rumors have swirled that she is a freak and they were members of the pineapple gang (makes sense looking back). Now she says she is job hunting in another city so she won't be around long. I think if I am clear upfront that this will just be a sex transaction that it won't deter her from leaving and I will be in the clear, itch scratched and I can release the resentment so harbored and be a better member of my family. I am still on the fence here and could really use some poignant thoughts to help me decide what to do. If you've pulled off a successful affair I would really like to hear your story and advice.
Quoted for your wife’s future divorce attorney
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:26 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
May not be what you want to hear but dont cheat on your wife. Massive regret. You'll never forgive yourself. Justification now seems reasonable but regret later will make you wonder how you ever justified it.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:27 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
I'll help you.
You've gotten fat, old and miserable and you're blaming it all on your wife.
You've gotten fat, old and miserable and you're blaming it all on your wife.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:28 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Screwing that other woman won’t make your libido go away.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:28 am to DarthRebel
That gifs depressing af
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:28 am to saint tiger225
quote:
You've gotten fat, old and miserable and you're blaming it all on your wife.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:29 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
This is where my chauffeur parked my vehicle !
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:29 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
You'll do it again and keep doing it.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:31 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Alcohol OP, copious amounts of alcohol. That's all I got
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:31 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
I know it's your first post, but rule #1... pics baw!
Don't have an affair, someone said it best earlier, but you'll regret it forever. If you're gonna try and stick it through for the kids, might as well keeping trying to make the marriage better. If not, the divorce is inevitable and she gets half your shite.
Don't have an affair, someone said it best earlier, but you'll regret it forever. If you're gonna try and stick it through for the kids, might as well keeping trying to make the marriage better. If not, the divorce is inevitable and she gets half your shite.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:32 am to Who_Dat_Tiger
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That gifs depressing af
I was waiting for the slide where the husband sets the wife on fire and the kids get raised by their grandparents.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:32 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Ask your wife if you can have a girlfriend.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:32 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
So first off, I hate you.
I really don't know where to go from here.
NEVER have an affair. That ruins the persons trust forever. What will you kids think when they find out? And your wife.
If it is that bad just watch some porn or divorce your wife amicably.
I really don't know where to go from here.
NEVER have an affair. That ruins the persons trust forever. What will you kids think when they find out? And your wife.
If it is that bad just watch some porn or divorce your wife amicably.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:33 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
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I know the honorable thing would be to divorce but I refuse to do that to the kids.
Your kids will think less of you if they found out you cheated on their mom than if you divorced her.
Posted on 2/21/23 at 10:33 am to WhereIsMyBestLife
Dunno why people seemingly don't believe the story. Young couple growing up together and the woman becomes disinterested while the man is still attracted to her
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