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Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to
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You're married to the OP's wife? I think I found his problem.


Oh, I get it. Not blindly attacking OP's wife means I'm knighting for her, even though I haven't said anything at all about her. Got it.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62699 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to
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Secondly. There's an outside chance she's just gone batshit and this is some Eat Pray Love bullshite where she's gonna leave you to go be woman hear her roar... Then she fricks someone else. Women are crazy.


This happens a lot. And society encourages it. Divorce porn is a genre of chick lit and movies.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to
The 18 months of counseling don't count as him fighting for his marriage? Only other thing he can do is turn into a complete pussy and cower to her. Once he does that, she'll hate him for that and take more advantage of him.

I'm not sure if you read that he already got served after a year and a half of counseling
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85660 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:57 am to
man...this kind of thing scares the frick out of me

I consider my marriage about as perfect as they come right now, but we have only been married for 5 years, I have no idea what it will be like in 18 more years

to be with someone that long and have that many kids with them and then to get all that torn apart? goddamn

I don't know whose fault it is, probably both could accept some blame, but goddamn I feel for the OP

Posted by mach316
Jonesboro, AR
Member since Jul 2012
4940 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:58 am to
If you have been honest, and not beating her on the reg, she's cheating. Sorry.
Posted by ndtiger
vicksburg, ms
Member since Aug 2004
8719 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:59 am to
Sounds like a bullshite excuse to me.

Probably somebody else in the picture
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:00 am to
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If you have been honest, and not beating her on the reg, she's cheating. Sorry.


Honestly sounds like menopause combined with stress of growing children.
Posted by Old Money
LSU
Member since Sep 2012
41574 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:01 am to
I'm not getting married. No fricking way.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
45489 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:01 am to
Lunchbox is an expert on women/divorce....he's been married for like a year
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:02 am to
Yep. You'd think after 20 years everything would be good. Scares the frick out of me. Might keep me from getting married. Idk.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
88766 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:03 am to
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Lunchbox is an expert on women/divorce....he's been married for like a year


I'm not the one saying things like "all women have no loyalty" or "she's definitely cheating" or "bullshite excuse" without knowing anything. Don't get your panties in a bunch because I don't jump to conclusions.

ETA: And big giant at you trying to call out me acting like an expert. Hypocrisy, thy name is TheOcean.
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 8:04 am
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85660 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:05 am to
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I'm not the one saying things like "all women have no loyalty" or "she's definitely cheating" or "bullshite excuse" without knowing anything.


its just a bunch of bitter divorced guys

can you really blame them? I know I'd be bitter as shite too if I went through a bad divorce
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
88766 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:06 am to
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its just a bunch of bitter divorced guys


Some of them are 20 something single guys. They're just saying the "cool" thing.


Posted by LSUmajek
Kemah
Member since Dec 2013
585 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:07 am to
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Yep. You'd think after 20 years everything would be good. Scares the frick out of me. Might keep me from getting married. Idk.


I feel like majority of men tell me (25) not to get married... Very few say its worth it, guess this is another one of those reasons
Posted by TRUERockyTop
Appalachia
Member since Sep 2011
16860 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:07 am to
Hope you've since hired a PI since the OP. Good luck man
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:08 am to
Or might have gone through similar situations
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62699 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:09 am to
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I'm not the one saying things like "all women have no loyalty" or "she's definitely cheating" or "bullshite excuse" without knowing anything. Don't get your panties in a bunch because I don't jump to conclusio


Well, some of these things are more likely than not. Women do initiate over 80% of divorces. They are also statistically more likely to enter into relationships relatively soon after a divorce. Why is that? Being honest about the nature of women is not a bad thing, hyperbole aside.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38985 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:09 am to
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Some of them are 20 something single guys. They're just saying the "cool" thing.



Yea I feel like the ones saying that are out of two camps. The ones who are bitter and divorced and the ones who are 22 and have never been married.
Posted by bobaftt1212
Hills of TN
Member since Mar 2013
1378 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:09 am to
I worked through the issues in my marriage during the dreaded 7 year itch a few years ago. It required more growth and personal development than I would willingly participate in. It also required leaning on God harder than I ever have before or since. Lastly it required me refusing to get divorced. I made it very clear that I didn't believe in divorce and that I understood she could drag me through one but that I wasn't going to do anything to make it go quickly or easier.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
45489 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:09 am to
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