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re: Just got served divorce papers today
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to Mo Jeaux
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to Mo Jeaux
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You're married to the OP's wife? I think I found his problem.
Oh, I get it. Not blindly attacking OP's wife means I'm knighting for her, even though I haven't said anything at all about her. Got it.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to mikelbr
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Secondly. There's an outside chance she's just gone batshit and this is some Eat Pray Love bullshite where she's gonna leave you to go be woman hear her roar... Then she fricks someone else. Women are crazy.
This happens a lot. And society encourages it. Divorce porn is a genre of chick lit and movies.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:55 am to arcalades
The 18 months of counseling don't count as him fighting for his marriage? Only other thing he can do is turn into a complete pussy and cower to her. Once he does that, she'll hate him for that and take more advantage of him.
I'm not sure if you read that he already got served after a year and a half of counseling
I'm not sure if you read that he already got served after a year and a half of counseling
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:57 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
man...this kind of thing scares the frick out of me
I consider my marriage about as perfect as they come right now, but we have only been married for 5 years, I have no idea what it will be like in 18 more years
to be with someone that long and have that many kids with them and then to get all that torn apart? goddamn
I don't know whose fault it is, probably both could accept some blame, but goddamn I feel for the OP
I consider my marriage about as perfect as they come right now, but we have only been married for 5 years, I have no idea what it will be like in 18 more years
to be with someone that long and have that many kids with them and then to get all that torn apart? goddamn
I don't know whose fault it is, probably both could accept some blame, but goddamn I feel for the OP
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:58 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
If you have been honest, and not beating her on the reg, she's cheating. Sorry.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 7:59 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Sounds like a bullshite excuse to me.
Probably somebody else in the picture
Probably somebody else in the picture
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:00 am to mach316
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If you have been honest, and not beating her on the reg, she's cheating. Sorry.
Honestly sounds like menopause combined with stress of growing children.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:01 am to Salmon
I'm not getting married. No fricking way.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:01 am to Mo Jeaux
Lunchbox is an expert on women/divorce....he's been married for like a year
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:02 am to Salmon
Yep. You'd think after 20 years everything would be good. Scares the frick out of me. Might keep me from getting married. Idk.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:03 am to TheOcean
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Lunchbox is an expert on women/divorce....he's been married for like a year
I'm not the one saying things like "all women have no loyalty" or "she's definitely cheating" or "bullshite excuse" without knowing anything. Don't get your panties in a bunch because I don't jump to conclusions.
ETA: And big giant
This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 8:04 am
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:05 am to LNCHBOX
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I'm not the one saying things like "all women have no loyalty" or "she's definitely cheating" or "bullshite excuse" without knowing anything.
its just a bunch of bitter divorced guys
can you really blame them? I know I'd be bitter as shite too if I went through a bad divorce
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:06 am to Salmon
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its just a bunch of bitter divorced guys
Some of them are 20 something single guys. They're just saying the "cool" thing.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:07 am to jimbeam
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Yep. You'd think after 20 years everything would be good. Scares the frick out of me. Might keep me from getting married. Idk.
I feel like majority of men tell me (25) not to get married... Very few say its worth it, guess this is another one of those reasons
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:07 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
Hope you've since hired a PI since the OP. Good luck man
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:08 am to LNCHBOX
Or might have gone through similar situations
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:09 am to LNCHBOX
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I'm not the one saying things like "all women have no loyalty" or "she's definitely cheating" or "bullshite excuse" without knowing anything. Don't get your panties in a bunch because I don't jump to conclusio
Well, some of these things are more likely than not. Women do initiate over 80% of divorces. They are also statistically more likely to enter into relationships relatively soon after a divorce. Why is that? Being honest about the nature of women is not a bad thing, hyperbole aside.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:09 am to LNCHBOX
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Some of them are 20 something single guys. They're just saying the "cool" thing.
Yea I feel like the ones saying that are out of two camps. The ones who are bitter and divorced and the ones who are 22 and have never been married.
Posted on 7/14/15 at 8:09 am to Old Money
I worked through the issues in my marriage during the dreaded 7 year itch a few years ago. It required more growth and personal development than I would willingly participate in. It also required leaning on God harder than I ever have before or since. Lastly it required me refusing to get divorced. I made it very clear that I didn't believe in divorce and that I understood she could drag me through one but that I wasn't going to do anything to make it go quickly or easier.
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