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Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:51 pm to Loaner1231
From your description, it sounds like you are a decent looking guy with good interpersonal skills. You avoid approaching women individually due to shyness, caused by a small lack of confidence. You see yourself as a decent guy, needing a group to enforce the decency so you can possibly draw a little interest from a female in the group.
Not everyone is 6'4 and walks in looking like Paul Walker. Worry about the things you can control. In your case, you need the gift of courage. Practice makes it easier.
A compliment is always un-offensive. "I like that sweater", Your hair looks elegant like that" etc., will mostly be well received. Don't sound like every other douchebag on the planet.
Practice just talking to individual women like they are real people once you meet them. Before you meet them is what I am concerned with though. Look for signs of being married, or having a SO and let them go. Trying to take her away from her Husband or boyfriend is kind of creepy. If she will cheat on them she will cheat on you.
Once you see someone you are interested in compliment her, or something about her. Be real in your compliment. Her reaction will tell you everything. If she says thanks in a tone that is so cold, the heater comes on, move on. If she smiles and says thanks warmly, then pauses for you to say something else, it is because you have a shot. when you first catch her attention, if she smooths or touches her hair, she is interested.
It is now up to you to lose, or keep her attention. If you have nothing else to say, tell an obvious lie, like you caused the red moon last night and ask if she saw it. Introduce yourself and ask a few light questions, nothing too personal. Don't be pushy but be a man. Women hate the new sensitive, renaissance men of the new millennium thing.
Finding common ground with interests, education, experiences, etc. helps the conversation flow easier and allows both of you to demonstrate value as people. Smile. Be funny where appropriate, but not a goofball. If she touches her face, rubs her nose or eyes, she is losing interest and preparing to move on. If you say something funny and she touches your arm, she is flirting.
If you have made it through a few minutes of conversation successfully, ask for her number. If you have read it wrong and get shot down, don't be a dick. Just be kind and make a graceful exit.
Practice makes it easier. Unfortunately, practice takes courage. Step up, and good luck.
Not everyone is 6'4 and walks in looking like Paul Walker. Worry about the things you can control. In your case, you need the gift of courage. Practice makes it easier.
A compliment is always un-offensive. "I like that sweater", Your hair looks elegant like that" etc., will mostly be well received. Don't sound like every other douchebag on the planet.
Practice just talking to individual women like they are real people once you meet them. Before you meet them is what I am concerned with though. Look for signs of being married, or having a SO and let them go. Trying to take her away from her Husband or boyfriend is kind of creepy. If she will cheat on them she will cheat on you.
Once you see someone you are interested in compliment her, or something about her. Be real in your compliment. Her reaction will tell you everything. If she says thanks in a tone that is so cold, the heater comes on, move on. If she smiles and says thanks warmly, then pauses for you to say something else, it is because you have a shot. when you first catch her attention, if she smooths or touches her hair, she is interested.
It is now up to you to lose, or keep her attention. If you have nothing else to say, tell an obvious lie, like you caused the red moon last night and ask if she saw it. Introduce yourself and ask a few light questions, nothing too personal. Don't be pushy but be a man. Women hate the new sensitive, renaissance men of the new millennium thing.
Finding common ground with interests, education, experiences, etc. helps the conversation flow easier and allows both of you to demonstrate value as people. Smile. Be funny where appropriate, but not a goofball. If she touches her face, rubs her nose or eyes, she is losing interest and preparing to move on. If you say something funny and she touches your arm, she is flirting.
If you have made it through a few minutes of conversation successfully, ask for her number. If you have read it wrong and get shot down, don't be a dick. Just be kind and make a graceful exit.
Practice makes it easier. Unfortunately, practice takes courage. Step up, and good luck.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:53 pm to KemoSabe65
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Nah,53 and do what I want.
She decided 21 years ago that our two boys needed all of her attention. Went from once a month to once a quarter to once a year so I said fark it. She’s getting left at home more and more so I’ll get the last laugh in the end.
Bad marriage? If so, sorry to hear that man. My parents had one but luckily split after 10 years or so.
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 8:54 pm
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:53 pm to Loaner1231
quote:
Wouldn’t be the first time someone watched. Good old college days.
::shutter::
Nobody wants to hear about your virgin roommate at BRCC watching you bang your gf.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:54 pm to Hangit
Im sexy AF an get laid all the time, but thats because I have really nice hair.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:55 pm to KemoSabe65
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so I’ll get the last laugh in the end.
Why do you say that?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:55 pm to Loaner1231
Dude I went almost 15 years, quit being a little bitch.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:56 pm to PeteRose
quote:
but people pretending sex is the only and greatest thing ever in life is just pathetic.
So how long has it been for you?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:56 pm to Tester1216
quote:he's gonna stick in her butt
so I’ll get the last laugh in the end.
Why do you say that?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:57 pm to Tester1216
quote:
, I agree but it’s definitely reachable.
It always is. Trust the person you are. There is a difference with him and depression issues. I haven't dealt with it so, for him, maybe.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:57 pm to OWLFAN86
Maybe that’s what she’s waiting for? 
And holy frick, 15 years. Did it fall off?
And holy frick, 15 years. Did it fall off?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:58 pm to Hangit
quote:
6'4 and walks in looking like Paul Walker
My SO is 6'4 and looks exactly like PW
Not actually joking. 
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:58 pm to Sampson
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Nobody wants to hear about your virgin roommate at BRCC watching you bang your gf.
That’s what I didn’t, and won’t, go into details... other than it wasn’t BRCC.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:58 pm to Tester1216
quote:if you don't use it, you will lose it
Did it fall off?
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:59 pm to liz18lsu
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My SO is 6'4 and looks exactly like PW
This is a lie
He's more like 6'2"and just claims to be taller
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:59 pm to Rouge
I think it just self implodes and becomes a 3rd nipple.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:00 pm to Tester1216
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Women are sooo much more forgiving than men.
This is not exactly a true statement. Women are less forgiving and hold grudges for longer than any man.
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:01 pm to Mr Perfect
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He's more like 6'2"and just claims to be taller
According to the last physical I had I'm 6'2 and 7/8ths.
Maybe the nurse fricked it up and I'm 6'
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 9:02 pm
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:01 pm to OWLFAN86
quote:The rest of us do not consider kneeling in front of a glory hole “getting laid” like you do.
Im sexy AF an get laid all the time, but thats because I have really nice hair.
RA’ed: move Owlie to the Gay Bored
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:02 pm to Mr Perfect
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This is a lie
Not actually, sorry to disappoint. His eyes are less blue than when I met him. But women fawn over him saying "Do you know who you look like?" I chastise him for playing dumb because he knows exactly who he looks like.
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