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Posted on 7/6/18 at 11:58 pm to
Posted by GeorgePaton
God's Country
Member since May 2017
5298 posts
Posted on 7/6/18 at 11:58 pm to
I'd tell him. I find out you touch that girl inappropriately I'll kick your arse. Then you'll have
to bum a ride from your friends.

But then I'm really old school.
Posted by KyleOrtonsMustache
Krystal Baller
Member since Jan 2008
5175 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 12:20 am to
My wife (no pics) was like that when we started dating (high school sweethearts). She would give me oral but that was it for a year. After that we’ve been banging for 25 years.

It was a looooong year. But, she’s a damn good woman and I’m glad 17 year old me didn’t throw it away for a piece of arse.
Posted by Lsuhack1
Member since Feb 2018
866 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 12:45 am to
Tell your son to pick his game up
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
10946 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 1:03 am to
quote:

But, she’s a damn good woman and I’m glad 17 year old me didn’t throw it away for a piece of arse.


I can tell you are proud of your decision. Good for both of you! I gave all that up when I met my wife almost 30 years ago. Nobody could compare to her, but she didn't hold out on giving it up either.
Posted by djmicrobe
Planet Earth
Member since Jan 2007
4970 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 1:29 am to
I would tell him, "You are lucky to be able to date a girl that respects her body enough to wait until married to have sex. She can be trusted to be faithful. You will not have to worry about her cheating on you. Learn how to date without sex. If you ever plan to get married you will have to learn how to be faithful to one woman. This is your chance to learn. You start being faithful to your future wife now. If you cannot be faithful to your future wife now (whom you may have not met yet), it will be difficult for you to be faithful to her once you meet her. Keep that thing in your pants and stop subjecting your body to possible diseases.
Take a no sex vow yourself. You will feel good about yourself. You will actually get to know this girl much better than previous girls you have dated. This will help you determine if she is the 'one' or not."
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
10946 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 1:32 am to
Very good advice, thanks for posting
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46125 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 7:34 am to
Respect her decision. That’s not much else to say. If he can’t date her without sec, break up with her. That’s about all there is to say.
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2967 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 7:45 am to
Unless he is willing to be celibate, which he isn't and he shouldn't, then he needs to amicably break it off and move on. Otherwise, he is just prolonging the inevitable. He will wind up cheating and then he will be the bad guy. Might as well just be up front with her now and move on before something bad happens. This is assuming that she is telling the truth of course. At 18, he should be banging sluts and having fun. He will not get this time back. There will be plenty of time for celibacy when he gets married. My biggest regrets are being in long term relationships through some of my prime years. There was sex, sure. But it was with only one person. And that is a tragedy.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
87093 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 8:15 am to
quote:

He has always been active as far as sex goes.
quote:

He's younger than 18
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
11001 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 8:19 am to
OP, you have come to the right place.
Posted by VernonPLSUfan
Leesville, La.
Member since Sep 2007
17659 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 9:21 am to
Just keep trying, they all say that shite.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 9:34 am to
OP is full of shite. The kind of genes that produce a good looking body do not simultaneously tell it to avoid sex.

Girl is either a fatty or getting railed by Jody behind his son's back.
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
71621 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 9:40 am to
My wife was a virgin when we married. She was very involved with a lot of campus ministry stuff at a small school in college. I had a normal LSU/college sex life. Neither of the our pasts mattered when we started dating as we both really liked on another and we’re pretty open about them. 14 years later we just had our 3rd kid and life is pretty awesome.

This girl sounds awesome I’m not sure what the issue is, either he’s into her enough to not have sex or he isn’t.

ETA: he’s 18 years old, he’s not going to marry this girl either way. He should do what he wants because he’s got a lot of life to live. Good for her if she keeps up her celibate lifestyle.
This post was edited on 7/7/18 at 9:45 am
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
23946 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 9:42 am to
quote:

what was he asking

Yes, I'm confused as to what advice needs to be given. Either he stays with her and hopes she breaks her vow. Or he tells her to kick rocks bc he's a young guy who has all the time in the world to bang sluts.
Posted by TOSOV
Member since Jan 2016
8922 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 10:07 am to
quote:

I would telll my kid if he can find a girl who wasn’t a complete whore these days to hang on to her if he really cared about her.

So many people are ok with marrying and dealing with former cock jockeys and it blows my mind how they do it.


Amen bradah. This on so many levels. Why i'm still not married. Couldnt vow myself to a girl thats let me do things to her...so easily. Ha.

To the op:

This convo really needs confirmation if she is a true virgin or a born again teen slut that had an aboration cause she didnt know who the real daddy was gonna be so didnt know who to get support from. And that gave her a wake up call. Or is if she is a anal and/or mouth train whore but no vag to "stay a virgin" which I dont accept as a "virgin"

If she is truly pure, attractive, and a good overall girl...and legal....hook a brother up...I'm mature enough to respect her wishes. These are the true unicorns out in the wild these days, and the older girls get the stock lessens.
Posted by bayoutiger225
Member since Nov 2009
472 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 10:09 am to
Am I the only one that thinks it’s weird that he’s sharing sex stories with you? I kept that shite away from my parents.
This post was edited on 7/7/18 at 10:10 am
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
10946 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 10:50 am to
quote:

OP, you have come to the right place


I know. ..lol. I was surprised by some responses. I didn't realize so many are still in the 60s as far as talking to their kids about sex. I got taught nothing and by the grace of something much larger than me I didn't become a father before I was ready.

I vowed not to make that mistake when it was my turn to raise boys. We teach our sons about everything else, why not that?
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
Member since May 2017
5202 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 11:11 am to
He doesn't deserve her, let somebody else have her.
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
Member since May 2017
5202 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 11:30 am to
This is the future.
Posted by bbourque5
Gonzales, LA
Member since Oct 2010
35 posts
Posted on 7/7/18 at 11:47 am to
Tell him to watch porn, simple solution.
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