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Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:10 am to
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
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Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:10 am to
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And the don't be afraid to move around until she finds the right counselor.
this too. I think my parents sent me to a few before this one guy worked his ping pong magic.
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
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Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:15 am to
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I hope you never have to deal with a child suffering with this. It is truly heartbreaking to see this.


Don’t give them a second thought man. There are a lot of fricking idiots on this site.
Posted by Park duck
Sip
Member since Oct 2018
616 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:16 am to
Her meds need adjusting. Dose is probably too high or not taking the meds consistently. Ive been on them since I was 12 now 46.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
5755 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:20 am to
Can you show a graph that goes past 2015? That's right around when all the social media and smart phones were ramping up.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
110080 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:30 am to
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Can you show a graph that goes past 2015? That's right around when all the social media and smart phones were ramping up.
I have found this for now

So looks like it went down?

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Number of deaths by suicide per 100,000 adolescents ages 15-19 is 12.2 between 2019-2021
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
5755 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:32 am to
I have found this for now

So looks like it went down?

Hope so. I wonder what was going on in the mid 90s. I graduated in 1990. Seems the mid 90s was a rough one for HS kids.

ETA: Nope, it was late 80s early 90s
This post was edited on 8/28/24 at 8:33 am
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85763 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:33 am to
Drugs. Lots of drugs.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
110080 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:34 am to
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so. I wonder what was going on in the mid 90s
Roger and his band of sad poor pitiful me gen x

Kinda ironic the toughest generation according to this board killed the selves more than any other

Trolling aside the late 80s to early 90s was a shitty time in America. Only nostalgia washes that away
This post was edited on 8/28/24 at 8:36 am
Posted by lsut2005
Northshore
Member since Jul 2009
2680 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:35 am to
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ADHD medicine


This might be the culprit. I’d suggest taking her off of it and see what happens.
Posted by migui8618
Member since Nov 2023
707 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:36 am to
Started my 9 year old on Anxiety meds last year. He was very closed off, didn't want to experience anything new, and it ruined him at school when things went south even in the slightest. It's helped. He's way more adventurous and even keel. School goes way better.
Posted by Willie Stroker
Member since Sep 2008
16249 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:36 am to
WHEN (not if) you get her into counseling, be sure to have her tested for any learning disorders.

It might be telling that this event is tied to school, an environment where she doesn’t feel like she fits in with the other kids.

Every kid is wired different. That’s just the nature of genetic variation. Getting her tested and into counseling will help her and you accept her genetic variation so that you can both begin the process of adapting to new information.

Also, anxiety is part of the human condition. Heck, it’s even part of the animal condition. There’s a fight or flight response that both life forms experience where tunnel vision kicks in. Sensory cues outside the cone of focus become irrelevant during these panic attacks. But with counseling she can learn to recognize the onset of anxiety, the triggers, the irrationality of it, and coping strategies.

She may not become less fearful, but she can learn to be more brave.


Sincerely,
Husband of a woman who should have started the process much earlier in life.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
5755 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:37 am to
I can see that. Also being young, at least for me, probably wasn't paying attention to the craziness around me. I was just partying.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
110080 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:38 am to
It was just a dark time in the country due to a multitude of reasons. But murder, suicide, addiction, was all at record highs.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
58763 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:38 am to
Back in the day us boomers had a treatment for anxiety called “belt”. I’m guessing none of you little millenial parents have heard of it with all the sagging pants I see
Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:38 am to
Our 13 year old has severe anxiety and was losing his shite before going to school, like getting violent. He’d refuse and would do whatever it took not to go. We got him in with a great adolescent counselor and in the last 6 months or so he’s done a complete 180. Loves school and seeing his friends. It def helps a ton at this age.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
110080 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:39 am to
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Our 13 year old has severe anxiety and was losing his shite before going to school, like getting violent. He’d refuse and would do whatever it took not to go. We got him in with a great adolescent counselor and in the last 6 months or so he’s done a complete 180. Loves school and seeing his friends. It def helps a ton at this age.
Thats awesome

Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
5755 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:40 am to
I remember crime being bad. Seems alcohol is frowned upon much more now than back then, but I could be wrong. Almost every friend's dad, and mine, drank after work, and even more-so on weekends. Most men I am friends with now and work with, don't drink much, or it's just on the weekend.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
110080 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:45 am to
As someone who used to drink everyday after work man alcohol is just pure poison. It’s wild how social norms work.
Posted by CatfishJohn
Member since Jun 2020
19497 posts
Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:47 am to
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There fears seam
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 8/28/24 at 8:48 am to
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Hope so. I wonder what was going on in the mid 90s.


A hell of a lot of teen angst.
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