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re: Rogan & Dan B on marriage: Don't do it.

Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:00 am to
Posted by joshnorris14
Florida
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:00 am to
The key to marriage is finding a debt-free virgin with no tattoos
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:04 am to
That was my argument from the beginning and why I specifically referred to an Alpha and “ different resources “. That got lost here in the responses. And many men tend to marry down.
Posted by TheOcean
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:06 am to
Kilroy is making the classic lunchbox arguments when it comes to marriage: just find a good girl who is smart and has a good job.

Roger that. Those girls can also be the craziest at the drop of a hat. All it takes is her getting bored or falling out of love for the marriage to start crumbling.
Posted by ItNeverRains
Offugeaux
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:11 am to
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Marry a girl who is actually intelligent and makes good money. Problem solved.


It really is as simple as this, but I’ll add “don’t need a mans attention 24/7. It’s all good in the honeymoon phase, but when that shite wears off, needy women will go where they are needed.

I should teach a class.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
101482 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:18 am to
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get all of my life advice from Joe Rogan.


I prefer to follow in Dan Bilzerians footsteps myself
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:19 am to
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Most of those things you’re scared about are not the reason divorces occur.

i've handled, literally, hundreds of divorces

money is probably the most common issue

some version of "being bored" (typically on the female end) is probably the 2nd. "being bored" is a wide grouping but a better description is probably "marriage didn't meet my expectations as a young girl". with the insane narcissism these days? oy vey
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:21 am to
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You haven’t been in high level retirement areas apparently.


Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
471408 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:22 am to
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That was my argument from the beginning and why I specifically referred to an Alpha and “ different resources “. That got lost here in the responses. And many men tend to marry down.


the thing is that men increasing earning being married, on average, doesn't mean that we're talking about very successful men
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:24 am to
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I ran into Dan one time a few years ago at a famous and scenic place in Hawaii, like 2 weeks after hearing who he was. He had a crew of like 2 or 3 geeky dudes following him with cameras and they were trying to climb over rocks to find a good spot to pose, it was so weird and pathetic. Must not have found a good spot or something because they ended up leaving immediately and never posting a picture (but later saw other pictures from Hawaii at same time so I know it was him). No chicks with him at the time either, unfortunately.


He is like almost everyone else on social media. He is living a lie ,but he has trustfund money to get these women to pose with him and go to places all over and promotes himself over the internet. Sadly many think that he lives this lifestyle and is some sort of alpha which is not the case at all.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
471408 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:27 am to
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just find a good girl who is smart and has a good job.

Roger that.

yeah the problem is that, the BARE MINIMUM requirements (for the guys this thread is about) are "smart, has a good job, and has internal drive"

right there, you're cutting off something like 75-90% of American women

then within that small grouping, you have to deal with (1) better male options (2) geographical limitations and population issues (3) personality matching (4) life goals matching, etc

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Those girls can also be the craziest at the drop of a hat. All it takes is her getting bored or falling out of love for the marriage to start crumbling.

and yes, this. major life events change people (internally and external things like expectations). marriage is basically the beacon for major life changes. kids change things a great deal (looks, sex, time, etc are drastically different). work changes things a great deal. then there are biological issues (menopause, lowering testosterone, etc) of age.

and all it takes is one variable and voila, it's over...oh and

Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
54755 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:31 am to
What makes a trust fund kidult living a pretend life an authority on marriage/relationships?
Posted by ItNeverRains
Offugeaux
Member since Oct 2007
28166 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:32 am to
quote:

some version of "being bored" (typically on the female end) is probably the 2nd. "being bored" is a wide grouping but a better description is probably "marriage didn't meet my expectations as a young girl". with the insane narcissism these days?


Call it what it is like I posted above, needy. Women are inherently more needy than men. With the amount of attention social media can give those endorphins from attention seeking women are in overdrive.

There’s another hint for you poor bastards. Look at a women’s social media. If you know every opinion and activity a woman has done in the last month from her social media, red flag that one immediately.

I should teach a class
Posted by ItNeverRains
Offugeaux
Member since Oct 2007
28166 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:35 am to
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What makes a trust fund kidult living a pretend life an authority on marriage/relationships?


He’s in direct contact with the neediest bitches on earth. He’s an attention seeker as well. So he’s like frick I know how much attention I need, multiply that shite by 50, and that’s my average slam piece.

Guy has more field work than some municipalities
Posted by saderade
America's City
Member since Jul 2005
26330 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:39 am to
Don’t know if most people didn’t watch the video but they were specifically referring to wealthy men getting married and how it is almost always a bad idea. Not as much about men in general.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
20736 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:41 am to
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And many men tend to marry down.

I do think this is an interesting point.

I am very happy with my marriage and defend marriage as an institution often on here. However, I certainly married up. I’m a short guy who was born in and spent his childhood in fricking Waggaman and somehow married a tall girl from Mountain Brook, AL. Probably a lot easier for me to feel satisfied with my marriage than someone who marries down.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59094 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:41 am to
well no shite, Dan Bliz doesn't exactly hang out with anyone worth marrying
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
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Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:43 am to
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intellectual equal


Sadly this is not possible for me.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
471408 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:47 am to
see you're joking, but it's extremely hard for me
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85696 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:51 am to
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They discuss marriage and how it is a rip off for guys.


Failed marriages are a rip off for guys.

Successful marriages are generally a net positive.

Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
471408 posts
Posted on 1/22/19 at 7:54 am to
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Failed marriages are a rip off for guys.

Successful marriages are generally a net positive.

for normal or above average guys? yes

for the people they're talking about? unlikely. any difference is also very marginal considering the guy was likely loaded pre-marriage
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