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Posted on 8/23/23 at 11:30 am to
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 11:30 am to
Oh lord now the day crew sees this.

Now not only are you the liberal ambulance chaser you also have a wife that leaves human poops on the floor. SMH
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108488 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 11:44 am to
Petty wife in this case. I mean welcome to motherhood.

You dealing with petty wife who wants to make a point. Welcome to being married to a woman, now mop that shite up and buy her some flowers. You fricked up, again.
Posted by SidewalkTiger
Midwest, USA
Member since Dec 2019
68644 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 11:56 am to
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You think she doesn’t know what her expectations and responsibilities are? She knows she should have cleaned the shite up. She was mentally done in that moment. That happens when you are home with kids all day messing things up while you try to put things back together and keep them entertained. She probably had little adult interaction all day. It’s draining.

You can be “right” and give her some lecture about expectations and responsibilities that she already knows. OR, you can have empathy, give her grace and have a happy marriage. Part of your expectations and responsibility is to support her emotional well being.


If OP decides not to work anymore, is the rest of the family expected to do without to "support his mental well being."
Posted by Sam Quint
Member since Sep 2022
8325 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 12:28 pm to
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Part of your expectations and responsibility is to support her emotional well being.

LSUGrl - I'm going to need a definition for "support her emotional well being" because this sounds like some total bullshite.
This post was edited on 8/23/23 at 12:30 pm
Posted by foosball
Member since Nov 2021
2293 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 12:30 pm to
quote:

The shite is still on the floor. I ask her why she didn’t clean it and she wants me to do it.


Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
50731 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 12:32 pm to
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he’s in a tizzy trying to clean him.
I assume this is why she left it.
Posted by texn
Pronouns: Y'All/Y'All's
Member since Nov 2019
4081 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 12:42 pm to
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I will be able to help you better after I see pics of your wife






Bonus: pic of OP
Posted by StTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2008
3143 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 12:59 pm to
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Doing shite like this and not communicating is why things become so hard on both sides.


Everyone is forgetting that OP said he got home 15 minutes after the phone call. Not like the shite was sitting there for hours.

And I'm not buying his side of the story. He was an arse to his wife on the phone and continued it when he got home. Not that hard, on the phone, to say, just take care of the kid, I'll be home soon and clean up the mess. When you got a shite covered, screaming kid, you are not worried about the floor
It's simply being a decent spouse.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
14413 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:04 pm to
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Everyone is forgetting that OP said he got home 15 minutes after the phone call. Not like the shite was sitting there for hours.


Is she going to proofread the RFP he responded to at work?

quote:

When you got a shite covered, screaming kid, you are not worried about the floor


A quick bath and re-dressing the kid is ten minutes. What you're advocating is laziness. It's not about being a "decent spouse," it's about being accountable for what happens on your watch, pure and simple.
Posted by Earnest_P
Member since Aug 2021
5244 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:05 pm to
I wouldn’t want my wife to sit on the couch while there was shite on the floor.

No sir, that would bother me.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61113 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:08 pm to
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When you got a shite covered, screaming kid, you are not worried about the floor
but she didn’t. The kid was cleaned up.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:10 pm to
quote:

Settle this marriage/ parenting dispute


always remember rule #1, your wife is always right, even if shes wrong, you better say she is right
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61113 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:12 pm to
bullshite.

And please don’t do the happy wife happy life shite. If you must be placated to be happy, please stay a long way away from me
Posted by TigerAlum12
Member since May 2019
9 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:12 pm to
There may be no monetary income from a stay at home parent, but daycare is expensive and the viruses your kid will routinely come home with will have the whole family scrambling for the commode can keep you out of work for days. Congrats on avoiding both
Posted by Techdog89
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2016
979 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:16 pm to
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You know you are right…. And you are. Now clean the shite and apologize like the rest of us


Posted by pbro62
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
15236 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:16 pm to
Like you have a wife
Posted by Sam Quint
Member since Sep 2022
8325 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 1:21 pm to
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And I'm not buying his side of the story. He was an arse to his wife on the phone and continued it when he got home.

how in the blue frick are you determining that? seems like you are literally constructing a narrative out of thin air to support the wife's side in this case.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108488 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 2:03 pm to
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You know you are right…. And you are. Now clean the shite and apologize like the rest of us



You win the internet this week
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98829 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 2:12 pm to
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always remember rule #1, your wife is always right, even if shes wrong, you better say she is right


I’m so glad I didn’t marry a woman like this. Marriage wouldn’t have lasted a week
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61113 posts
Posted on 8/23/23 at 2:31 pm to
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I’m so glad I didn’t marry a woman like this. Marriage wouldn’t have lasted a week
amen. I dont understand men that say things like this.
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