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Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:44 am to
Posted by massiveattack
CharLIT/Chapel Chill
Member since Oct 2010
11582 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:44 am to
there is no such thing as God, so why do you care?
Posted by Moustache
GEAUX TIGERS
Member since May 2008
21651 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:45 am to
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really?


curse words? it's 2015 dude. I doubt your'e going to burn in hell for using a curse word, let alone hearing one.



I know you young redditards love cursing in front of kids and trying to "liberate your minds from the conservatives," but cursing in front of a 6 year old is not admirable or appropriate.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:46 am to
I guess I'll never understand.

I grew up in an Italian Catholic family.

So words like frick were thrown around kids with complete disregard.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12327 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:46 am to
During middle school hoops practice, my coach called me a fricking punk and told me that he was going to bury me in his backyard and plant an oak tree in my a-hole if I didn't stop fricking around in the weight room.

I dropped a double-double the next game and he bought me ice cream.

Posted by TigerHam85
59-024 Kamehameha Highway
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:46 am to
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claims to be a Catholic too, so he shouldn't be using that kind of language.


Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33250 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:46 am to
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(What can you do in a basketball game that is "Christ-like"?


Nail somebody on the boards?

Sorry, 16 years of Roman Catholic education is tough to get over.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:47 am to
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liberate your minds from the conservatives


registered republican bro

Posted by Moustache
GEAUX TIGERS
Member since May 2008
21651 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:47 am to
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oly frick... this is what's wrong with America. If you have a problem with it, tell it to him, to his face.

Or send him a tweet.



This. OP needs to have a friendly talk and just say something along the lines of, "I know sometimes coaching can be frustrating, but please watch your language around the kids."

Any normal human being who isn't a meat head should apologize and say he will try to do better.

If he doesn't respond well or continues, then go up the chain.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:47 am to
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I have heard priests, nuns, brothers, bishops, etc. curse some of them daily in class. Some using words like frick and the like.


Same here. Never got a GD out of them either and I didn't hear the other cursing until HS.

I coach middle schoolers and while I'm not making them run laps for dropping a four letter word, we have a general rule of keeping it clean.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:47 am to
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write him a letter expressing your feelings.
Posted by Hermit Crab
Under the Sea
Member since Nov 2008
7414 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:48 am to
why is this guy getting so worked up about a 6 year old basketball practice?

seems like a guy that might try to fight a ref if a bad call was made.
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
17113 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:49 am to
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there is no such thing as God, so why do you care?


Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:49 am to
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why is this guy getting so worked up about a 6 year old basketball practice?


I guess you want the kids to grow up losers and pansies?
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79205 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:50 am to
It's amazing how many people in here think it's no big deal to yell "God dammit!" in front of 6 year olds. Either they don't have kids, just want to be contrary or are trashy and this is par for their course.
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
17113 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:50 am to
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Nail somebody on the boards?


Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18909 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:50 am to
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socially acceptable to say frick but not frick


I find "frick" really annoying.

Frankly, I don't really care for the way some people seem to go out of their way to substitute for curse words. They sound so awkward. Just go ahead and say it because it means the same thing to you.
Posted by SoDakHawk
South Dakota
Member since Jun 2014
10455 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:51 am to
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How about you teach your kid what words he shouldn't be using and be adamant about it. Regardless of who else is using those words, that he may not use it, especially in your presence.

Kids will hear bad words. You can't protect them forever. But you can teach them right or wrong when it comes to the verbage they themselves are using.


About time I read the right response. First of all I don't think a few GD's are all that bad, but, it can depend on the context. Is he muttering GD under his breath? Is he directing it at a kid, screaming "GD Johnny, get your head in the game" like that? Is he just screaming GD to the heavens when the kids screw up?

As long as he isn't a ball of hate that is taking it out on the kids a little GD dropped here and there isn't that bad. Like the poster I quoted, use it as an opportunity to talk to your son about good language and bad language. Even at 6, I will guarantee you he has heard worse out on the playground. Probably already knows what a reach around is by now.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Member since Jun 2004
89965 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:51 am to
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why is this guy getting so worked up about a 6 year old basketball practice?


He's not worked up about basketball, he's worked up that an adult is cussing openly in front of 6 years olds you moron.

If you and your children were at a hibachi restaurant and the dude sitting next to your kid was like "holy shite this meal is gonna be so fricking good I guarantee I'll be gettin some pussy on my dick tonight!" don't you think you might want to tell that guy to tone it down a notch?
Posted by Professor Parks
AZ
Member since Jul 2013
1112 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:52 am to
Like id talk to him to his face, but I dont want it to cause a rift on the team and hurt my boy's chances of playing. He's one of the league's leading scorers, and I'd hate for his pt to suffer because I confronted the coach. But I don't want him learning said language so young.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18909 posts
Posted on 12/23/14 at 10:53 am to
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You assume that cursing is bad behavior


In fact it is. Sure, it is considered socially acceptable in some settings, but I doubt you would say "God damn" during a job interview.
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