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re: Why don't parents hit their kids anymore?

Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:15 pm to
Posted by TCO
Member since Jul 2022
3261 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:15 pm to
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Tell me you're a pusy


The defense would like to enter Exhibit B for the court
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
49830 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:27 pm to
That’s what I used to say all the time
Posted by ned nederlander
Member since Dec 2012
5721 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:41 pm to
I mean how old was the kid? A 6 year old doing they sure that’s a behavioral problem.

A 3 year old? It happens. Sometimes 3 year olds freak out and yell, hit and spit.
Posted by Gings5
Member since Jul 2016
11366 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:55 pm to
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Do you believe that you respect them because you were spanked?

Lol no, but it taught me actions have consequences. They definitely didn’t overdue do it and it was probably less than 10 times. It was always well earned
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
23068 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:55 pm to
I was never hit and I didn’t grow up to own trashy arse pit bulls like you
Posted by AlonsoWDC
Memphis, where it ain't Ten-a-Key
Member since Aug 2014
9277 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:56 pm to
I wonder what percentage of parents who hit their children also hit their pets.
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
13022 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 11:58 pm to
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Why have parents gotten so soft that they can't discipline their kids anymore?


My children will get whippins in private if it escalates past the death stare I give them in public.

I will never hit my kid. I love them too much. Disciplined whippins aren't the same as hitting IMO.

Whippins aren't really about the pain. It's about breaking them out their current frame of mind.

This as someone who got their share growing up.
This post was edited on 12/1/22 at 12:01 am
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
29079 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 12:12 am to
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I will never hit my kid. I love them too much. Disciplined whippins aren't the same as hitting IMO
Your opinion is that a hit is not a hit as long as you do it in a controlled and procedural way and assign the process a cutesy name?
Posted by monsterballads
Gulf of America
Member since Jun 2013
31201 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:03 am to
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Why don't parents hit their kids anymore?


according to most recent polls, the majority of parents in the US hit/spank/slap their children.

if you don't hit your kids, you're actually in the minority.

LINK

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The truth is, Americans are very much in favor of spanking. That’s despite decades of strong evidence that it puts kids at risk for serious psychological and developmental issues, and with no real silver lining.


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“At times, it doesn’t have any effect, but it never has a positive effect,” Elisa Romano, a professor at the University of Ottawa School of Psychology in Canada, said by phone. “Research shows that the only positive effect is immediate compliance,” she added. In addition to aggressive and antisocial behavior, studies have associated spanking with depression, potential damage to learning and memory skills and reduced gray matter of the brain in cases of particularly harsh punishment.
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
56911 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:07 am to
Needing to hit your child is a failure on your part, not theirs. You should have done a better job when they were younger and would probably benefit from someone else hitting you than taking it out on a child that failed to learn things from you in their development years.
Posted by double d
Amarillo by morning
Member since Jun 2004
17114 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:08 am to
When I was a kid if we acted up at a friends house you'd get two spankings, one by his parents and one harder one when you got home. Kept us in line. Yeah, I'm a boomer. My kids got spankings when necessary, they both turned out fine.
Posted by YNWA
Member since Nov 2015
7206 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:12 am to
They aren't going to beat the shite out of their kids on a packed flight. Somebody will record it and upload it to social media and next thing you know there's outrage and child protective services is showing up at their door ready to take their kids away.
Posted by Midget Death Squad
Meme Magic
Member since Oct 2008
28403 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:13 am to
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He probably gets hit at home but not in public. That's why he hits them.


No. Spouting off ignorant talking points by idiot sociologists does not make it true. I have a friend who never hits or even disciplined her kids, and the youngest daughter will go to town on her. The mom fusses, tells to stop then ultimately laughs until she is done hitting.

Not one repercussion. Zero. This kid does this often and it keeps getting worse.


The reality is that not disciplining your children turns them into these monsters.
Posted by monsterballads
Gulf of America
Member since Jun 2013
31201 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:19 am to
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Most Parents were not "hitting their kids" they were administering a form of punishment, named corporal punishment or informerly called spanking their kids, due to the kids misbehavior


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That’s the first line of argument from many people who advocate for spanking: It’s an age-old tactic, and there’s a difference between hitting for punishment and abuse. But the majority of research says that argument doesn’t add up.

To look at a baseline of potential harm, one 2016 paper reviewed 50 years of research on one of the most mild and common form of spanking — hitting children on the rear or limbs with the palm of a hand. The meta analysis found that all of the included studies linked spanking to negative results, its collective sample size accounting for more than 160,000 kids.

“If you look at those studies — every one of them that examines the relationship between corporal punishment and aggression, hyperactivity, or antisocial behavior — you will see that the more kids are hit, the more behavioral problems they have,” Joan Durrant, a professor at the University of Manitoba’s Department of Community Health Sciences, said by phone. “It’s so clear that it’s not debatable.”
Posted by monsterballads
Gulf of America
Member since Jun 2013
31201 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:22 am to
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The reality is that not disciplining your children turns them into these monsters.



agreed. it also has to do with parents just doing what was done to them. some parents want to break the cycle and actually discipline their kids by talking to them and explaining why they want them to change their behavior.

guarantee most people in prison right now were "spanked" as kids and look at where they are.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59634 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:24 am to
prisons and rehab facilities are full of grown up kids who got hit a lot
Posted by Van Wilder
Member since Jul 2014
249 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:41 am to
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Some lady at Walmart called the cops on my sister in law for smacking her son in the face. He was throwing around those bouncy balls and knocking over stuff and repeated pleads and threatens for him to stop went on deaf ears. She even passed him a slap on his behind. Didn't work. She had enough and slapped him right across the face and he finally stopped. A woman saw it and confronted my sister in law and got management involved and they refused to let her leave until the police showed up. Once the officer arrived, he got a few statements and told the woman who initially complained to stop wasting their time.


Trashy
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
77049 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 6:42 am to
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prisons and rehab facilities are full of grown up kids who got hit a lot


They're also full of people who grew up drinking milk
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5699 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:24 am to
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How’s that working out for them?


I laughed, but you're not wrong.
Posted by irishTiger18
Chicago
Member since Oct 2019
705 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:27 am to
Y’all spankers better enjoy those old people homes and get used to the “sorry dad we’re too busy to come home for thanksgiving/Christmas this year” excuse
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