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re: As a mid 40's male I often get to be an emotional wreck
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:11 pm to Bedhog
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:11 pm to Bedhog
Serious answer....are you on any meds? I am close to 40 and was a mess about a year ago. Like my wife was about to leave me type shite, crying, drinking, etc. We have a great life, nice house, good jobs, etc. I had an allergic reaction to a blood pressure med and i came to find that med was causing severe depression. I got off it and a week later felt better than I had in years.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:11 pm to Bedhog
I'm much like you in terms of career, etc. I think it's because everything is worse now than we were expecting. The good shite we think back on was amazing because it was so real and full of potential.
What we have now is just an unsorted mess of people yelling at each other and nothing feeling real.
What we have now is just an unsorted mess of people yelling at each other and nothing feeling real.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:12 pm to Bedhog
Check your testosterone. If it's low you will feel way better when it's corrected
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:13 pm to Bedhog
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Often times just watching a video. Also thinking back on old times. Wtf is wrong with me. I am a business man, very professional, always the one everyone leans on family and friends. I don't feel like I'm being stretched too thin but damn my emotional swings say otherwise.
Great... so I have this to look forward to in a few years...
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:13 pm to patnuh
On no meds except for thyroid meds that are monitored every year.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:13 pm to Bedhog
Low T and realizing that your best days are behind you and not in front of you anymore. It gets worse.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:14 pm to Bedhog
quote:Not even close to correct there.
I act like a like a tough arse around here.
PS: Jack freezes to death because Rose is a selfish floating b*tch.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:14 pm to Bedhog
JK...sort of
I can shed tears at the drop of a hat for certain things.
But I'm an AU fan and the ups and downs of Gus's offense can do that to anyone
This post was edited on 10/21/19 at 6:17 pm
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:15 pm to notiger1997
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Go buy a corvette
What is the proper mid life crisis age?
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:15 pm to 777Tiger
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yes, it is, funny thing for me is I'm healthy as a horse but don't necessarily lead a super healthy lifestyle but as I get older I worry about the health of friends and family, not a huge fan of aging but I don't dwell on it
You cross a line when you hear of someone you know dying, and it's a surprise but not a shock, because that shite happens to someone his age.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:16 pm to Bedhog
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I am the quentisential male. Very tough. Always on top of whatever things go wrong around the house. I'm at a loss as to what's going on.
I think that is a common trait, my Dad was that way, I have it too but more stoic, everyone else's well being first, I'm a tough guy, I can handle it, etc., kind of hard to break that, difference in my Dad and me along those lines was that he was quicker to show compassion for anyone(not a sap,) where as I have to assess the situation first
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:17 pm to 777Tiger
I find myself getting less empathetic as I get older.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:17 pm to soccerfüt
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Watch Sula Kim on WDSU.

This post was edited on 10/21/19 at 6:18 pm
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:17 pm to Jim Rockford
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you hear of someone you know dying, and it's a surprise but not a shock, because that shite happens to someone his age.
at that point, it would be depressing if you dwell on it, imo, got to push forward
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:18 pm to LaBR4
I’d try to drive it like I stole it.
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:18 pm to Bedhog
Never admit weakness on the OT btw
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:19 pm to Jim Rockford
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I find myself getting less empathetic as I get older.
same, must be a natural insulator because I find it a lot harder to show or feel emotion when it happens anymore
Posted on 10/21/19 at 6:20 pm to genuineLSUtiger
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It gets worse
Not for baby boomers. They just put their head down and became even more selfish, arrogant, and entitled at this point.
I’m taking that play from there book. It’s working. Y’all need to be more selfish, for health reasons.
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