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re: Involuntary Singleness/Childlessness/Loneliness
Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:26 pm to SuperSaint
Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:26 pm to SuperSaint
quote:
So you’re single?
May I introduce you to my mate CFLSaint?
Yep, maybe a little old. I'd be looking for a guy with grandkids!
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Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:27 pm to czechtiger
These for a start today.
(and well-done czech-er
)
(and well-done czech-er
)quote:
1) Maintain as much of a social life as possible. Stop beating yourself up for being the "third wheel/only single guy" at parties, holidays,etc. GO TO THE PARTY. ACCEPT THE INVITE. MAKE YOURSELF GO. Don't start avoiding social situations. This helps when you finally bump into a decent woman.
2) Watch your alcohol intake like a goddamn hawk. That shite is poison to a human being in this spot. Everybody has an acceptable dose/limit. Figure yours out. (Mine is two. 3rd drink triggers all kinds of issues)
3) MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL: You're body is not the same as it was. You have to friggin' eat right. Eat healthier than you ever have in your life. Hit that goddamn gym like you are in Navy Seal training. Get a routine. Learn to run. You have to make your body produce the right chemicals/hormones and all that crap. Get fired up about being in the best shape of your life. Start a journal. Write down your thoughts and watch them get cleaned up as your rountine gets put together.
Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:36 pm to supadave3
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Not as easy as it sounds. I know a dude that got scammed out of $10k trying that. Not only did he wire them $10k, he flew to some Far East airport to bring her back and was then ghosted.
That would suck. OP, be thankful you’re not THAT guy. That’s a true story.
If you're not smart, anyone can get scammed on anything. He probably needs to do some overseas trips. Thailand, PI, etc., or get friendly with Asians working at local restaurants, etc.
Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:39 pm to Gravitiger
quote:
Dear fricking Facebook. Get a therapist. Social media is not an outlet for this type of life question.
Wow! There's always a few in every crowd
quote:
but I have great hair and all that sex,,, when people complain about how difficult it is to meet women I just don't get it,, they are EVERYWHERE and tons of them make very poor choices... be that poor choice!!!!
This guy never gets old
This post was edited on 11/14/21 at 3:46 pm
Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:50 pm to CFLSaint
You can still have these things. Make goals and focus on building the life you want. Don't worry about other peoples' timelines.
Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:52 pm to czechtiger
quote:
czechtiger
End of thread.
Posted on 11/14/21 at 3:53 pm to supadave3
quote:
Not as easy as it sounds. I know a dude that got scammed out of $10k trying that. Not only did he wire them $10k, he flew to some Far East airport to bring her back and was then ghosted.
That would suck. OP, b
We seemed to have a pipeline to Eastern Europe or Russia at my last job. 3 guys I worked with had mail order brides from those places. One of them from Russia was fairly attractive but she had a bunch of white supremacist tattoos
Posted on 11/14/21 at 4:02 pm to fallguy_1978
She must have went to prison
Posted on 11/14/21 at 4:15 pm to CFLSaint
I’m not sure what’s worse your situation or mine. I’ve been divorced now about 6 years after 26 years of marriage and 7 kids 3 adult and 4 still under 18. I go from busy single dad to nothing about every couple weeks. It’s tough emotionally for sure.
I sometimes want to date but then when I dip my toe into that pool it comes out with sepsis. It seems the 38+ dating pool is full of sewage. If you really want to all you can do is push through and find “the one”. It won’t be easy by any means.
I sometimes want to date but then when I dip my toe into that pool it comes out with sepsis. It seems the 38+ dating pool is full of sewage. If you really want to all you can do is push through and find “the one”. It won’t be easy by any means.
Posted on 11/14/21 at 4:18 pm to Mid Iowa Tiger
quote:
7 kids
Holy shite dude. Wrap it up sometime
Posted on 11/14/21 at 4:41 pm to el Gaucho
Soros is the Lon Nol of our time.
Trust me, I know this shite backward and forward.
Trust me, I know this shite backward and forward.
Posted on 11/14/21 at 4:44 pm to fallguy_1978
quote:
fairly attractive but she had a bunch of white supremacist tattoos
"But"?
Posted on 11/14/21 at 5:11 pm to CFLSaint
Wear a wedding ring and the poon will find you
Posted on 11/14/21 at 5:19 pm to CFLSaint
Hey keep your head up. The older you get the quicker a relationship can mature. I know people that got together later in life and we're ready to get married a few months in because they knew what the wanted.
Posted on 11/14/21 at 5:29 pm to CFLSaint
Kind of a downer thread and sorry for your situation.
If this were me I’d probably try to impact my community in a positive way as much as possible. Volunteer as much as possible. Join the Big Brother program. Help at the Food Bank.
Things like this will help you meet people, appreciate what you do have, and also help you feel better about what you’re doing with your time.
If this were me I’d probably try to impact my community in a positive way as much as possible. Volunteer as much as possible. Join the Big Brother program. Help at the Food Bank.
Things like this will help you meet people, appreciate what you do have, and also help you feel better about what you’re doing with your time.
Posted on 11/15/21 at 6:31 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
quote:
I’m not sure what’s worse your situation or mine. I’ve been divorced now about 6 years after 26 years of marriage and 7 kids 3 adult and 4 still under 18. I go from busy single dad to nothing about every couple weeks. It’s tough emotionally for sure.
I sometimes want to date but then when I dip my toe into that pool it comes out with sepsis. It seems the 38+ dating pool is full of sewage. If you really want to all you can do is push through and find “the one”. It won’t be easy by any means
When the OP is feeling lonely just be happy you aren’t this guy
Posted on 11/16/21 at 3:35 pm to CFLSaint
If you're looking for a 35+ year old woman with no kids you're fishing in a shallow pool. She might be out there but you're writing off a lot of great women right from the start. Believe it or not a lot of them have great kids too.
And as others have said physical activity and sunshine have profound effects on your sense of well-being. Active people are happier people and happy people are so much more attractive.
And as others have said physical activity and sunshine have profound effects on your sense of well-being. Active people are happier people and happy people are so much more attractive.
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