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re: married men with female friends- possible??

Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:31 pm to
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:31 pm to
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
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Posted on 12/28/24 at 9:22 am to
Only if said “married man” is a closet gay.
Posted by Loconuts
Member since Dec 2024
103 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 9:24 am to
Why would any dude want to be friends with a chick unless they were fricking?

Posted by Porpus
Covington, LA
Member since Aug 2022
2685 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 9:36 am to
I don't really understand the concept of friends past about age 30, period. How does that work? I'm supposed to just ask some guy if he wants to go to the driving range with me, or come over and shoot the shite for a few hours? I guess if I still lived in Louisiana maybe I'd see friends from childhood, but why on earth would I stay there with everything that's gone down in the last 40 years or so?

Part of it may relate to my wife. Other men my age look at my wife and think I'm a frickin' weirdo, and maybe I am, but I just cannot imagine having some other male I just randomly "hang out" with, at age 48.
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
38433 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 9:39 am to
Men and women can not be friends. I don't care what anyone says. The man wants to smash or the girl has ulterior motives.

Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37536 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 9:41 am to
quote:

don't really understand the concept of friends past about age 30, period. How does that work? I'm supposed to just ask some guy if he wants to go to the driving range with me, or come over and shoot the shite for a few hours? I guess if I still lived in Louisiana maybe I'd see friends from childhood, but why on earth would I stay there with everything that's gone down in the last 40 years or so? Part of it may relate to my wife. Other men my age look at my wife and think I'm a frickin' weirdo, and maybe I am, but I just cannot imagine having some other male I just randomly "hang out" with, at age 48.


Damn, what a sad post
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98849 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 9:42 am to
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Other men my age look at my wife and think I'm a frickin' weirdo, and maybe I am,


Why do they think you’re weird after looking at your wife?

ETA: and I think you’re weird because you don’t have friends
This post was edited on 12/28/24 at 9:43 am
Posted by Porpus
Covington, LA
Member since Aug 2022
2685 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:05 am to
quote:

Why do they think you’re weird after looking at your wife?



She's a big, tall African woman.

quote:

ETA: and I think you’re weird because you don’t have friends



I used to. Before I started getting with women, I used to have pretty close friends. Then, when I was a single adult, I had a few. As a married man, I just don't see how it would happen.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
51331 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:08 am to
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As a married man, I just don't see how it would happen.

You don’t see how married men have friends?

Is your big African wife abusive or something?
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
72894 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:22 am to
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There's a key difference to me. Exclusively. Shared friends are completely normal as long as the conversations don't cross lines, like topics about sex and other topics that would be reserved for your wife.


The closest thing I have to female friends are my wife’s female friends. These are generally ladies from church or mothers of kids our own kids’ ages. If I’m out and see one, of course I’ll speak and be neighborly. Or if my wife and I are in a social setting, I’ll even sit and chat with them. But, that’s the extent of it. I don’t hang out with them, call, IM, or text, or really have any contact with them outside of that which happens with my wife.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
90504 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:26 am to
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The closest thing I have to female friends are my wife’s female friends. These are generally ladies from church or mothers of kids our own kids’ ages. If I’m out and see one, of course I’ll speak and be neighborly. Or if my wife and I are in a social setting, I’ll even sit and chat with them. But, that’s the extent of it. I don’t hang out with them, call, IM, or text, or really have any contact with them outside of that which happens with my wife.


one of my best, life long friends is a girl, she is good friends with the wife and family and is an avid fisherman(person?) she has a condo and a boat with a Captain and mate in Key West, I go fishing with her all of the time without the wife, and have been for decades, no big deal, she also goes on a lot of trips with us, her husband died about 8-9 years ago but when he was alive we all did things together
Posted by Zendog
Santa Barbara
Member since Feb 2019
6640 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:28 am to
I ain't reading all that shite
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:28 am to
I can’t believe this thread is still going. This thread is going on longer than any relationship between two attractive people has ever remained purely platonic.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
90504 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:29 am to
quote:

I can’t believe this thread is still going.


slow times on the OT, baw


ETA: when I was a young, single manslut, there was almost no chick that I didn't consider a potential target
This post was edited on 12/28/24 at 10:32 am
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36748 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:35 am to
quote:

don't really understand the concept of friends past about age 30, period. How does that work? I'm supposed to just ask some guy if he wants to go to the driving range with me, or come over and shoot the shite for a few hours? I guess if I still lived in Louisiana maybe I'd see friends from childhood, but why on earth would I stay there with everything that's gone down in the last 40 years or so?

I don’t know if this is a troll post or just sad.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
19357 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:36 am to
It’s possible if the man is gay
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
19357 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:37 am to
quote:

Men and women can not be friends. I don't care what anyone says. The man wants to smash or the girl has ulterior motives.

100% of the time

It’s science.
Posted by wm72
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2010
9282 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:46 am to
The amount of people in this thread who can't fathom how a man and woman can be friends without fricking each other even if they're happily married to other people sheds a lot of light on why there are so many threads about failed marriages.

Really, my female friends are the most valuable ones to give advice when there are any little issues with my relationship since they usually offer perspectives that don't occur to me or my male friends (who I really don't talk about relationships with anyway).
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
90504 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:50 am to
quote:

my female friends are the most valuable ones to give advice


that’s a trap right there, baw
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19187 posts
Posted on 12/28/24 at 10:57 am to
quote:

The amount of people in this thread who can't fathom how a man and woman can be friends without fricking each other even if they're happily married to other people sheds a lot of light on why there are so many threads about failed marriages.


You could also turn that around and say that the number of people who think it’s no big deal to have female friends also sheds a lot of light on failed marriages
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