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re: Why don't parents hit their kids anymore?

Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:27 am to
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
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Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:27 am to
If you HAVE to hit your kids to make them act right you failed somewhere along the way to let it get that far.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5697 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:28 am to
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My elementary principal kept his paddle mounted on the wall. It had holes cross drilled into it, for aerodynamics and balance I guess.


Must have been a cottage industry or pamphlet handed out somewhere, because back when I was a kid, every principal I had up until highschool had the same design
Posted by lsu xman
Member since Oct 2006
16774 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:31 am to
Just take away their phone privileges if you want to torture them.
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
23088 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:34 am to
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A kid can be easily controlled


I’d love to know your secrets
Posted by Laugh More
Member since Jan 2022
3723 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 7:56 am to
There’s a difference between being spanked or switched as a form of punishment and as a deterrent to further bad behavior and simply being beaten with no reasoning behind it.

Always explain to your kids WHY they’re being punished and spanked before doing so. Reinforce why it’s necessary in the first place.

shite, I don’t even have kids and this seems like the right path to go about this?
Posted by oldcharlie8
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2012
7829 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:00 am to
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Those parents on your flight just have no control over their kid and the kid doesn’t respect them. My brother’s kid runs their house too, it is painful to watch.


you want to get control over a kid, grab that fricking ear and twist that mf. they'll start behaving quickly
Posted by 0x15E
Outer Space
Member since Sep 2020
14735 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:09 am to
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Why don't parents hit their kids anymore?


Because I raise my kids correctly and they don’t act in ways that justify a beating.

Maybe be a better parent

Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:15 am to
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Always explain to your kids WHY they’re being punished and spanked before doing so. Reinforce why it’s necessary in the first place.



Close, but not quite.

If you have it carefully explained your expectations beforehand, then you don't have to explain anything. They should know what is coming and why. If you want to spank less, spank first. If you employ this correctly and consistently, spanking will quickly disappear because the behavior will be corrected. Bear in mind, spanking only involves the parent's hand and only on the child's butt, and only a hit or two. It's a behavior stopper, it is a way to ultimately express your displeasure about something they KNOW they were doing wrong.

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I don’t even have kids and this seems like the right path to go about this?



Stay in your lane, Bro.
This post was edited on 12/1/22 at 8:18 am
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
29079 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:18 am to
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The reality is that not disciplining your children turns them into these monsters.
Yeah no shite, but we're talking about discipline vs. physical discipline.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
29079 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:18 am to
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My elementary principal kept his paddle mounted on the wall. It had holes cross drilled into it, for aerodynamics and balance I guess.
Must have been a cottage industry or pamphlet handed out somewhere, because back when I was a kid, every principal I had up until highschool had the same design
Hah probably so
Posted by Marciano1
Marksville, LA
Member since Jun 2009
19938 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:21 am to
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You must not go to Walmart? Black women beat the shite out of their kids.

*they kids
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
77027 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:23 am to
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*they kids



*They chirrens
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
31262 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:24 am to
I had to fight my Dad once. It was about getting my hair cut in the 70s. He whooped my arse, but I didn't care, I kept getting up
He gave up and got in the car and took my younger brothers to the barber shop.
The next day, he took me to lunch at his favorite place.
At the time, little immature me thought it was a win.
Only a month later, I'm having to think about his kindness as we are searching for him. He didn't come home one night..
This post was edited on 12/1/22 at 8:44 am
Posted by Seen
Member since Aug 2022
1127 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:25 am to
I never hit my daughter (no pics). Maybe a couple for oldest son and quite a few spankings to youngest son. Don’t think I spanked any after the age of 5 or 6. They all seem normal and still visit us
Posted by Homey the Clown
Member since Feb 2009
6039 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:25 am to
If you raise your children right, you don't have to hit or even raise your voice in order to discipline them.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68520 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:26 am to
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Because some Karen will record it and post it on FB and the parent will get arrested.

Yep this is why
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
90464 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:29 am to
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If you raise your children right, you don't have to hit or even raise your voice in order to discipline them.



I was the middle kid of five, my dad was pretty rough on me as far as the beatings, didn't scar me or my relationship with him, I believe that was just the way it was back then, I do believe that the physical punishment for kids has run its course though
This post was edited on 12/1/22 at 8:31 am
Posted by Seen
Member since Aug 2022
1127 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:29 am to
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If you raise your children right, you don't have to hit or even raise your voice in order to discipline them.


Yea my neighbor says the same thing. His youngest is in jail, oldest is “decent” person as in nice but hasn’t had a job in over a year and 23 years old. They did all that whatever bullshite but never any spankings. Bragged about raising their kids so they don’t have to spank them, fussed at me once (the wife did) for whooping mine in the backyard Nobody has come up with the perfect raising that fits every kid, that’s why this argument is dumb
Posted by mthorn2
Planet Louisiana
Member since Sep 2007
1559 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:34 am to
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Because some Karen will record it and post it on FB and the parent will get arrested.


You get one good spank. Gotta make it count. Go for that second spank and no doubt someone will have the camera ready! Parents gotta be smart about it these days in public...
Posted by mthorn2
Planet Louisiana
Member since Sep 2007
1559 posts
Posted on 12/1/22 at 8:36 am to
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If you raise your children right, you don't have to hit or even raise your voice in order to discipline them.


Obviously you don't have kids.
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