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Posted on 1/18/22 at 5:16 am to
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 1/18/22 at 5:16 am to
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We have two accounts, but they’re both joint accounts.




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Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
44179 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 5:25 am to
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We tried a joint account for bills at one point and we sucked at it.



Same here.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60768 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 5:29 am to
It all goes in one pot out of which everything is paid. Works fine.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
73742 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 5:54 am to
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When married it’s all both of yours, both assets and liabilities.
You are a simple (yet strange) person who often doesn’t even suspect what he doesn’t know.
Posted by i10Duck
mobile
Member since Nov 2008
1630 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:02 am to
Yes
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
25446 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:02 am to
Yes. She keeps 100% of hers. I pay all the bills from mine and spend some.
Posted by Panny Crickets
Fort Worth, TX
Member since Sep 2008
5596 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:05 am to
Yep.

We each have our personal accounts. Neither has a clue what’s on the other’s. She pays X bills, I pay Y.

We have a joint account that we never use.

I’ve got several others that are tied to businesses.

It’s worked fine for years. We communicate and trust each other. Crazy concept.
Posted by Tiger Ugly
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
18221 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:30 am to
Yes and we're both much happier that way.
Posted by Woolfman_8
Old Metairie
Member since Oct 2018
2072 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:34 am to
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Yes. I have a seperate checking account which is for personal use. We share a joint checking account for bills, grocery, household expense, car insurance, children's various expenses, etc... She also has a seperate checking account for her personal expenses (shopping, dinners w/ friends, etc...) We have a joint savings account. I can spend out of my seperate account freely. She can spend out of her seperate account freely. Alleviates any possible tension of spending on our frivolous items.


This, we got married at 33 and have too much invested/saved to try to commingle without it becoming a nightmare.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17505 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:36 am to
Seperate accounts. Seemed like a pain in the arse to change everything.
Posted by josh336
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2007
82268 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:37 am to
Yes, we have a joint account for bills. Separate accounts works better for us and has for over a decade. She is super detailed about tracking every dollar spent and im more relaxed. So sharing an account wasnt going to work for us. Plus easier to keep gifts and christmas presents, etc. secret this way
This post was edited on 1/18/22 at 6:38 am
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
33751 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:39 am to
We have a joint checking account and separate savings accounts (including retirement accounts).
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
58504 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:45 am to
Yes. We both have our own separate checking and savings accounts and we have a joint checking and savings account.

Personal buys (gas, clothes, etc) come from our personal accounts and household purchases (mortgage, insurance, cable, repairs, etc) come from the joint checking account.

We also have access to each other's accounts just in case of an emergency.
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
19212 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:46 am to
We have our own primary accounts but we are both on each others’ account so not really separate I guess. It is easier for her to track expenses for her business with the separate account.
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
71610 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:48 am to
No, but we do have separate credit cards with self-imposed monthly limits. It works well for us.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
10890 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:49 am to
Yes and it’s the best thing we ever did. We can each keep our finances in check without having to not know what the other has spent or is planning on spending.

My wife doesn’t need to work, I’m OT rich. I have one account that money goes into for autopay bills only. No debit card, never spending money besides the bills. I have a second account for spending money. And my wife has her spending account.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
80181 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:49 am to
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No. Dont see the point


Left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing in real time. You're both writing checks and using debit cards.

Of course I'm not a poor so that isn't an issue, but if money is tight it's better to have each of you be responsible for certain expenses so you can watch every dollar.
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
20805 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:52 am to
3, and multiple savings accounts. Both have access to everything.

Marry the right one and you don’t have to worry. I’m the drop a grand on something because I feel like it one in the family.
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
56137 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:59 am to
The wife and I have seperate checking accounts but also a joint account that we pay our bills from. We both contribute 50/50 to that account. Our personal spending comes out of our personal accts. Our savings accts. are set up the same way but I contribute a little more than she does to the joint acct.
Posted by jojothetireguy
Live out in Coconut Grove
Member since Jan 2009
10599 posts
Posted on 1/18/22 at 6:59 am to
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Yes. She has hers and I have mine.

Works perfectly since we both make about the same. We split the expenses…..

We never fight about money.


Same here. She buys how ever many shoes, clothes, etc she wants and i buy whatever i want. If we have to make a large purchase we'll split it. No big deal.
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