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re: If married with children, how long were you married before first child was born?

Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:41 pm to
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
72909 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:41 pm to
Married July 20, 1997

Fist child born Dec. 4, 2001

So, married a little under four an half years before our first was born. And I don’t regret that time because it gave us some time to grow closer together, mature, and generally prepare to start a family. I look at that period as “our time” and I would not trade it for anything.
Posted by chinesebandit56
Brusly
Member since Apr 2017
221 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:42 pm to
Three years and 4 months after we were married.
Posted by RazorBroncs
Possesses the largest
Member since Sep 2013
15946 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:43 pm to
Married a year and 2 months before our first (and only so far) was born.

Wife and I waited until we were older than average to both get married and have children, and it's been a huge blessing. We own our home and have paid off vehicles, so my wife can get by working part time at a job she enjoys (coaching gymnastics) while I make enough to support us.

The smartest thing we've ever done is waiting until we're in the position to do that to start a family, and no strangers will be raising our kids. Second one is on the way now
Posted by s0tiger
Member since May 2008
1077 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:43 pm to
Married 5 years before 1st, 2 years later for the second.

We wre empty nesters in late 40s.

Wouldn't do anything different.
Posted by RazorBroncs
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Member since Sep 2013
15946 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:49 pm to
quote:

We wre empty nesters in late 40s.



In my late 40s I'll have two kids in elementary school
Posted by BRich
Old Metairie
Member since Aug 2017
2898 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:10 pm to
Married 11/91. First one born 5/97.

So about 5 1/2 years.

Kind of part of the plan-- wife was in med school when we married, needed to get that over with and then residency beforehand. Also bought our first house 2 years before the 1st baby.

We had baby # 2 three and a half years afterwards, and that was it.
This post was edited on 1/22/26 at 10:35 am
Posted by AaronDeTiger
baton rouge
Member since Jun 2014
2290 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:12 pm to
3.5 months.
Posted by Tiger Vision
Mandeville
Member since Jan 2005
3902 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:13 pm to
5 months
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
49924 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:14 pm to
5 years! We traveled, we lived life, then we settled down with the chirrens.
Posted by Zap Rowsdower
MissLou, La
Member since Sep 2010
15974 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:15 pm to
Just under a year.
Posted by saturday
Pronoun (Baw)
Member since Feb 2007
7865 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:28 pm to
9 years. We moved around the country and experienced a lot and had a lot of fun and made great memories, but I really love being a dad and kind of wish I had started sooner now.
Posted by Kingshakabooboo
Member since Nov 2012
1746 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:33 pm to
Married 2 yrs 11 months. Second kid 3
Years later.

I wouldn’t change anything because I am happy with the life we had up til now and I couldn’t not be more proud of the adults my kids have grown into.
Posted by SalE
At the beach
Member since Jan 2020
3041 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:37 pm to
6 months...raising her and son..later, just him .
Posted by NorthEndZone
Member since Dec 2008
13941 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:43 pm to
9 days short of 3 years.

We agreed that the first two years were going to be our time to adjust to married life and enjoy time with each other and travel some before starting a family.

Then we had 3 kids in the next 7 years and 8 months.
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
15260 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:47 pm to
Five years and eight years for our second.
Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
10809 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:48 pm to
quote:

We wre empty nesters in late 40s.


same here.
except my youngest not only followed me to Texas, but he brought along his fiancé and then had a damn baby.

but being a grandpa is fricking awesome, so not complaining.
Posted by LSUDad
Still on the move
Member since May 2004
62302 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 11:06 pm to
3 years.
Posted by Tr33fiddy
Hog Jaw, Arkansas (it exists)
Member since Aug 2023
1971 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 11:07 pm to
Got married 7 months before our first was born. Been married 26 years now... it's been a hell of a roller coaster.


Young newlyweds always ask me what advice I have to sustain a long marriage. They expect me to say something romantic and my advice is... don't quit. If you are a quitter you'll never be married long. Each of us has had a dozen reasons for divorce over the years.. each time we didn't quit and came out better for it.
Posted by H2O Tiger
Delta Sky Club
Member since May 2021
7938 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 11:11 pm to
Just over two years. Started dating in 2018, married in 2022, and son born in 2024.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
15148 posts
Posted on 1/21/26 at 11:16 pm to
3 years

1st pregnancy was miscarriage - would have been 2 years, twins no less
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