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re: If married with children, how long were you married before first child was born?
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:41 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:41 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Married July 20, 1997
Fist child born Dec. 4, 2001
So, married a little under four an half years before our first was born. And I don’t regret that time because it gave us some time to grow closer together, mature, and generally prepare to start a family. I look at that period as “our time” and I would not trade it for anything.
Fist child born Dec. 4, 2001
So, married a little under four an half years before our first was born. And I don’t regret that time because it gave us some time to grow closer together, mature, and generally prepare to start a family. I look at that period as “our time” and I would not trade it for anything.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:42 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Three years and 4 months after we were married.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:43 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Married a year and 2 months before our first (and only so far) was born.
Wife and I waited until we were older than average to both get married and have children, and it's been a huge blessing. We own our home and have paid off vehicles, so my wife can get by working part time at a job she enjoys (coaching gymnastics) while I make enough to support us.
The smartest thing we've ever done is waiting until we're in the position to do that to start a family, and no strangers will be raising our kids. Second one is on the way now
Wife and I waited until we were older than average to both get married and have children, and it's been a huge blessing. We own our home and have paid off vehicles, so my wife can get by working part time at a job she enjoys (coaching gymnastics) while I make enough to support us.
The smartest thing we've ever done is waiting until we're in the position to do that to start a family, and no strangers will be raising our kids. Second one is on the way now
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:43 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Married 5 years before 1st, 2 years later for the second.
We wre empty nesters in late 40s.
Wouldn't do anything different.
We wre empty nesters in late 40s.
Wouldn't do anything different.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 9:49 pm to s0tiger
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We wre empty nesters in late 40s.
In my late 40s I'll have two kids in elementary school
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:10 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Married 11/91. First one born 5/97.
So about 5 1/2 years.
Kind of part of the plan-- wife was in med school when we married, needed to get that over with and then residency beforehand. Also bought our first house 2 years before the 1st baby.
We had baby # 2 three and a half years afterwards, and that was it.
So about 5 1/2 years.
Kind of part of the plan-- wife was in med school when we married, needed to get that over with and then residency beforehand. Also bought our first house 2 years before the 1st baby.
We had baby # 2 three and a half years afterwards, and that was it.
This post was edited on 1/22/26 at 10:35 am
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:14 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
5 years! We traveled, we lived life, then we settled down with the chirrens.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:15 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Just under a year.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:28 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
9 years. We moved around the country and experienced a lot and had a lot of fun and made great memories, but I really love being a dad and kind of wish I had started sooner now.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:33 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Married 2 yrs 11 months. Second kid 3
Years later.
I wouldn’t change anything because I am happy with the life we had up til now and I couldn’t not be more proud of the adults my kids have grown into.
Years later.
I wouldn’t change anything because I am happy with the life we had up til now and I couldn’t not be more proud of the adults my kids have grown into.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:37 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
6 months...raising her and son..later, just him .
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:43 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
9 days short of 3 years.
We agreed that the first two years were going to be our time to adjust to married life and enjoy time with each other and travel some before starting a family.
Then we had 3 kids in the next 7 years and 8 months.
We agreed that the first two years were going to be our time to adjust to married life and enjoy time with each other and travel some before starting a family.
Then we had 3 kids in the next 7 years and 8 months.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:47 pm to NorthEndZone
Five years and eight years for our second.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 10:48 pm to s0tiger
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We wre empty nesters in late 40s.
same here.
except my youngest not only followed me to Texas, but he brought along his fiancé and then had a damn baby.
but being a grandpa is fricking awesome, so not complaining.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 11:07 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Got married 7 months before our first was born. Been married 26 years now... it's been a hell of a roller coaster.
Young newlyweds always ask me what advice I have to sustain a long marriage. They expect me to say something romantic and my advice is... don't quit. If you are a quitter you'll never be married long. Each of us has had a dozen reasons for divorce over the years.. each time we didn't quit and came out better for it.
Young newlyweds always ask me what advice I have to sustain a long marriage. They expect me to say something romantic and my advice is... don't quit. If you are a quitter you'll never be married long. Each of us has had a dozen reasons for divorce over the years.. each time we didn't quit and came out better for it.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 11:11 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
Just over two years. Started dating in 2018, married in 2022, and son born in 2024.
Posted on 1/21/26 at 11:16 pm to Everyday Is Saturday
3 years
1st pregnancy was miscarriage - would have been 2 years, twins no less
1st pregnancy was miscarriage - would have been 2 years, twins no less
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