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Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:04 pm to
Posted by nolaTiger24
Member since Sep 2008
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Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:04 pm to
This is such a bad take. Most men and women that are professionally driven have no interest in getting married before 30.
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
12345 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:04 pm to
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A lot of men are so pathetic that they run to wife up the first decently looking woman that regularly touches their penis


Pathetic? Baw that’s just how men approach life. Stick your dick into trouble, and let everything else fall naturally into place.

Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
6239 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:05 pm to
Well, hope that bitch is successful with IVF then and the kids don’t have issues.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37536 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:06 pm to
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Well, hope that bitch is successful with IVF then and the kids don’t have issues.


She’s 30 in this hypothetical not 45

You make this thread like every other week
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14617 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:07 pm to
Why is she a red flag? Most people get married out of convenience. It happens to be a person that is in your life at a time you think you should be getting married. Thinking you met the person you want to live the rest of your life with after three or four relationships is so interesting. Someone in their 30s has likely focused on themselves in their 20s (personal or professional growth) rather than following societal trends, which result in 30% failure rate because 30% of first time marriages end in divorce. She knows who she is and what she wants in life, not what society says she would be. It should probably be hundreds if not thousands of dates or meeting that many people you might be interested in before deciding who to marry. The person that is going to have the single largest impact on your personal and professional success should not be an easy decision.
This post was edited on 9/10/25 at 1:15 pm
Posted by dakarx
Member since Sep 2018
8366 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:08 pm to
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A woman in her thirties who has been divorced is likely a better candidate than a woman in her thirties who has never been married. Why? The divorce could not have been the woman’s fault at all.


Just as likely she got bored with him, took half of his shite, and is now looking for the next sucker to finance her life.

Your arguments hold no water.
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
40117 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:08 pm to
i feel like there is a massive gap between 31 year old never married women and 39 year old never married women but both classify as in their 30s

i am guessing the average age for a women to get married is around 28
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12332 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:10 pm to
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Ideally, every man wants to marry a woman in her twenties that has never been married. However, sometimes life throws you a curveball.

Never once did I think this. In fact, I thought about how I had no desire to ever marry any woman until I met my wife. I wouldn’t have given 1 frick if she were divorced.
Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
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Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:11 pm to
Yes, you do have to investigate.
Posted by El Segundo Guy
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Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:11 pm to
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I am living the complete opposite to this thread. I am the divorced dad, full custody of kids, who is now going on 8 years with my girlfriend whom I met when she was in her 30s and had never been married.

My gf, was/is very career oriented and is killing it on that front and is the best partner I could have ever asked for. Guess I'm just the outlier in your opinion 


I would say I am as well.

I was twice divorced when I met my wife. She was 33 and never married, did have a daughter out of wedlock about 10 years prior.

Anyway, she's an awesome woman. There were guys that wanted to marry her, but she wasn't interested. She can be a little stubborn, but im way more stubborn than she is. She's the most good-hearted woman I could ever imagine, a good mother and stepmother to my adult daughter and she's very good at her career as a nurse.

I'm a very lucky man. There are always exceptions to every rule.
Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
6239 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:12 pm to
35 is a geriatric pregnancy. Chances of miscarriage and autism increases significantly after the woman is 35.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
101560 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:13 pm to
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Why? The divorce could not have been the woman’s fault at all. He could have been abusive


The problem with these is every time you have to whoop the shite out of them it brings up traumatic memories from the previous marriage and they start getting distant
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Member since Jan 2005
80181 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:13 pm to
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A woman in her thirties who has been divorced is likely a better candidate than a woman in her thirties who has never been married. Why? The divorce could not have been the woman’s fault at all. He could have been abusive and cheated on her. And he could have hidden these traits from her all through the period they were dating.


You'd take the woman who struck out already? Single at 30 might just mean she went to med school or vet school and kept her focus on education instead of dating.
Posted by krewerider
Member since Sep 2009
965 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:15 pm to
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Stay far away from women in their thirties who have never been married.


OR.....women are just becoming more self sufficient and more selective, to avoid assholes like yourself! Evidently some never been married 30's woman put you in your place. Good for her!
Posted by wareaglepete
Union of Soviet Auburn Republics
Member since Dec 2012
18032 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:15 pm to
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What about the one who has been married three times by her thirties ?



Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37536 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:15 pm to
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35 is a geriatric pregnancy. Chances of miscarriage and autism increases significantly after the woman is 35.


I guess it’s a good thing this’ll never be a problem for you
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:16 pm to
I think its time for some self reflection. This isn't healthy.

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Posted by whodat4ever
Indaboot
Member since Aug 2012
263 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:17 pm to
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Sorry a bachelorette in her 30's rejected your advances


Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
22650 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:18 pm to
Yikes. This guy has big incel energy. Sitting around all day thinking up scenarios about which women he dislikes
Posted by sharkfhin
Water
Member since Sep 2008
5483 posts
Posted on 9/10/25 at 1:20 pm to
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woman who has never been married in her thirties is likely a narcissistic psychopath
if she fine and in her 40s , 100% yes. In her early 30s, you gotta vet circumstances. She could have been in a couple long relationships where she got f'd over or something. See what situation is. 35-40, if she is baller smoking hot and never got married, she got a giant bag of luggage and is most likely bat shite cray cray.

I dated a woman after divorce years back who was 32(looked 25), smoking hot naked(gold plated P), pretty face, college degree and excellent job. I swear she could have been twin sister's with Anne Hathaway. She was divorced for a few years and she was off the fricking hook crazy. The P was like meth to an addict. She was a text book psychopath and narcissist. She stole drugs, money, liquor, lie in a hearbeat and had a list of frick buddies you had no clue about etc. Bitch slowly revealed this to me. If its your first time, don't let the P reel you in, it will end in absolute shite.

This bitch was so crazy, when I broke up with her, she would beg and id show up just for the p. She tells me with no regard, she lost her job(her career job in accounting that she grad college from)because she went to lunch one day and got loaded at walkons and came back stinking drunk to work and didnt care cause she knew another dumb guy who owned his own cpa firm would hire' her because of her looks). This woman was off the hook drunk. Anyways run from these kinds of people. I saw a pic of her recently and her face has changed. Looks like a text book alcoholic face. My son saw this woman about a year ago, she was delivering Uber eats to one of his customers. Women like this are self destructive to everything.
This post was edited on 9/10/25 at 1:29 pm
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